Txheej txheem "ntaiv" tsim VG Shur. Nws yog siv los ntawm cov psychologists thiab cov niam txiv kom paub tias tus me nyuam nws tus kheej-kheej ntau. Cov txheej txheem yog heev yooj yim. Rau nws cov kev siv tsis tau lengthy kev npaj thiab manipulation ntawm complex, muaj yog tsis muaj yuav tsum tau mus yuav tshwj xeeb cov ntaub ntawv. Thiab kev kho mob tsis ntev ntev. Qhov no ua rau nws yooj yim heev siv. Txawm hais tias muaj ib co subtleties uas yuav tsum tau paub txog thiab teb. Stimulus cov ntaub ntawv rau txoj kev ua no yog ib tug ntaiv qauv ntawm 7 degrees. Nws muaj peev xwm kos heev ntawm nws tus kheej, raws li nws tsis cuam tshuam rau kev soj ntsuam.
Txheej txheem "ntaiv" yog siv rau cov me nyuam ntawm preschool thiab thaum ntxov lub tsev kawm ntawv uas muaj hnub nyoog. Yog li ntawd, tus txhais lus los ntawm txawv hnub nyoog ntawm cov kev tshwm sim yuav tsum sib txawv. Uas yog tsis sib npaug xam tau tias yog zoo tib yam kawg cov ntaub ntawv qhia menyuam kawm ntawv thiab lawv kawm kom.
Txheej txheem "ntaiv" yau cov tub ntxhais kawm muaj li nram qab no ob tug sib txawv. Ua ntej, cov lus qhia uas muaj nuj nqis thiab muaj tseeb, thiab yog li ntawd ntau nyuaj. Tus me nyuam yog hais tias nyob rau hauv lub heev hauv qab rung cov txheej txheem ntawm feem ntau cov kev phem, tsis mloog lus, capricious, cowardly thiab dag hais mav, tab sis nyob rau hauv lub heev saum toj kauj ruam muaj qhov zoo, mloog lus, txawj ntse, siab zoo, muaj zog, siab tawv thiab thiv cov me nyuam. Lub siab dua cov kauj ruam, qhov zoo rau tus me nyuam. Thaum kauj ruam 4 yog cov me nyuam tsis phem thiab tsis zoo. Nws ua hauj lwm - kom ua rau nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv cov kauj ruam, uas sib raug rau nws yog dab tsi niaj hnub no. Qhia rau peb yog vim li cas nws xav tias li ntawd. Tom qab ntawd nug nws piav qhia qhia yuav ua li cas nws xav yuav. Qhia kom meej rau niam thiab txiv, cov xib fwb yuav tau muab tso rau nws. Qhov thib ob - ib tug txhais lus ntawm cov kev tshwm sim. Yau cov menyuam kawm ntawv los ze zog rau nws tus kheej-txaus thiab tsis txaus siab rau lawv tus kheej kheej yuav tsum yog tus cai xwb nyob rau hauv txawv txawv lub sijhawm. Yog vim li cas rau cov rejection ntawm txoj hauj lwm yuav ua tau ib tug yooj yim to taub yuam kev ntawm cov lus qhia. Nws kuj yuav ua ib tug me nyuam qhov chaw nyob nws tus kheej rau hauv nruab nrab rung.
Txheej txheem "ntaiv" rau lawv kawm kom yuav muaj ib tug me ntsis ntau simplified cov lus qhia. Thiab tua kab mob inflated self-esteem ntawm tus me nyuam yuav muab suav hais tias lub cai.
Yog vim li cas rau qhov mob ntawm tua kab mob inflated nws tus kheej nyiam hais tias tus me nyuam tsis tau tos kom muab tso rau lawv tus kheej nyob rau saum rung nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov variants, piav qhia txog cov kev xaiv ntawm cov neeg laus lub tswv yim. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam hais txog lawv failures, tab sis lawv yog vim li cas xav tau ywj siab los ntawm nws, nws tus kheej-kheej tsuas overstated.
Nws yog txaus, yog hais tias tus me nyuam txo nws hwj nws tus kheej rau ntawm qhov 5 thiab 6 kauj ruam, piav qhia txog lawv cov kev ua. Kev luj xyuas ntawm cov neeg laus yuav, nyob rau hauv lub tswv yim ntawm cov me nyuam, cov qub los yog me ntsis qis.
Npe nrov nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv qab kauj ruam, tus tsis kam piav los yog siv rau ib tug neeg txoj kev xav - yog ib tug manifestation ntawm tsawg self-esteem nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam.
Tej tshwm sim yog tsis tseem ceeb thiab tsis yog qhov. Tus me nyuam loj hlob tuaj, thiab lub ntiaj teb no yuav hloov. Nco ntsoov tias, tag nrho cov fixable. Txawm koj tus me nyuam tus kheej-kheej nyob rau hauv koj lub hwj chim kom hloov. Txheej txheem "ntaiv" - yog ib tug yooj yooj yim thiab yooj yim txoj kev uas yuav yuav nyob rau hauv alert.