High self-esteem - tus yuam sij rau tsis ua hauj lwm?

High self-esteem - tus yuam sij rau tsis ua hauj lwm? Los yog txoj kev mus rau kev vam meej? Sawv daws xav tias txawv, txawm li cas los, yuav txiav txim rau leej twg tsis nyob hauv peb txawj txaus, lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - kom paub tseeb npaum li cas self-esteem muaj feem xyuam rau lub neej, kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg. Thiab nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, yog dab tsi tom qab nws?

Yuav pib nrog ib tug txhais ntawm yog dab tsi tus kheej ntawm tag nrho cov. Yog li, ib tug kev soj ntsuam ntawm lawv cov tib neeg muaj peev xwm thiab kev txawj ntse. Los ntawm cov txhais nws li nram no tias lub zeem muag nws tus kheej tej zaum yuav sib txawv, vim hais tias txhua leej txhua tus muaj nws tus kheej lub tswv yim rau tej yam yuav mus nyob rau.

Raws li cov hauj lwm ntawm kev psychologists, xaus lus tias nws tus kheej-kheej - nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev ib feem ntawm lub tsim ntawm tus neeg, vim hais tias nws tsim thiab kosteneet nrog self-nco qab. Tab sis nws yuav tsum tau muab sau tseg tias peb saib peb tus kheej yuav ua tau, nyob rau hauv ib tes, txaus - ib txwm, nruab nrab, tsis muaj self-esteem. Nyob rau lwm cov tes, txaus - siab nws tus kheej-kheej thiab understated. Cia peb soj ntsuam nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim.

Zoo Tsim Nyog, txawm nws yuav ua tau, nws yog suav tias yog lub cai, vim hais tias tus neeg ntawd yog sober saib nws ua dab tsi, mus rau siab mus thiab yuav ua li cas yuav ua li cas. Cov peb ntau ntau yuav tsum hloov mus rau hauv txhua lwm yam, uas yog nyob tsuas yog nyob rau peb siv zog. Self-esteem - yog ib qhov taw qhia ntawm peb cov achievements thiab kev sib raug zoo nrog sab nraud ntiaj teb no.

Piv txwv li, yog hais tias tus theem yog tsawg tsawg, ces cov neeg tsis ntseeg nyob rau hauv lawv lub peev xwm, nws pom nws tus kheej zoo siab, ua tsis tau sawv tawm los ntawm cov neeg coob coob, xav tias nws tus cwj pwm thiab nws lub neej boring thiab uninteresting. Tab sis xws li ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm tseem ua ib qho kev rau siab mus cuag ib yam dab tsi, thiab tom qab txoj kev vam meej ntawm nws tus kheej-kheej yog yuav hloov.

Cov neeg uas muaj qhov nruab nrab thiab theem siab lub tswv yim ntawm nws tus kheej ntau inclined rau optimistic outlook nyob rau lub neej, feem ntau ntseeg nyob rau hauv lawv lub peev xwm, tiam sis tej zaum, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tom qab lub tsis ua hauj lwm, los ntawm uas tsis muaj ib tug yog tiv thaiv kab mob, yuav nyob twj ywm nyob rau hauv dismay. Nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm cov neeg, lawv feem ntau tsis qhia qhov tsis zoo, txawm li cas los, tsis nrhiav ua kom haum txhua leej txhua tus, yog li tsis txhob nrhiav tus haum thiab tsis muab txim rau lawv kev sib txuas lus.

Yog hais tias koj tsom xam uas tsis muaj self-esteem, ces ntawm no yog qhov chaw mus rau lub hwj chim ntawm tsawg self-esteem uas los rau nws tus kheej-flagellation. Tej cov tib neeg yuav xav tias thov txim rau koj tus kheej, liam tag nrho cov teeb meem ntawm txoj hmoo, tsis sim mus nrhiav yog vim li cas hauv. Introspection rau lawv yog tsuas siv rau nws tus kheej-kev thuam, tab sis nws tsis mus nrhiav kom tau tej kev los txhim kho lawv cov teeb meem.

Inflated self-esteem, paradoxically, feem ntau tsuas yog ib tug npog qhov ncauj. Feem ntau, xws li ib kev ntsuam xyuas lawv tus kheej thiab lawv tus cwj pwm thaum lwm tus neeg yog pom xwb nyob rau hauv lub phem tshaj tau lub teeb, thiab nws muaj nws tus kheej cwm pwm - nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw; thaum cog qoob loo nyob rau hauv lub fact tias tag nrho cov ntawm koj paub zoo dua txawm lub feem ntau competent kws txawj - yog zoo li ib txwm rau tib neeg.

Feem ntau, cov neeg no nkaum ib inferiority complex. Raws li yog lub npe hu, qhov zoo tshaj plaws kev tiv thaiv - nres, ces lawv touted lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev uas, yog li ntawd tsis muaj ib tug twv lawv yeej muaj tseeb ntshai.

Nws yog ntseeg hais tias lub feem ntau nyuaj rau hloov ib tug neeg, uas muaj high self-esteem, vim hais tias nws tsis mloog cov tswv yim, ntseeg hais tias nws paub txhua yam zoo tshaj plaws. Cov noob nkag mus pointless vim hais tias xws li tus neeg yuav tsis saib ib sab rau lawv tus cwj pwm. Raws li psychologists hais tias, nws tus kheej-kev tso siab - hais tias yog dab tsi los ntawm thaum yau. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, cov niam txiv overzealous, raug lead lom lawv tus me nyuam qhov zoo tshaj plaws, muab piv nrog rau lwm cov me nyuam, uas allegedly zuj zus.

Yeej understated thiab tsawg self-esteem yog heev tiag tiag. Txaus los tuav ob peb kev kawm. Piv txwv li, sau ntawv rau ib daim ntawm tag nrho cov ntawm nws kev ua tiav, rau cov uas koj tsawg kawg yog luv luv mus xyuas muaj nuj nqis. Nco ntsoov tsis txhob tag nrho sim nyob sib piv nrog lwm tus, paub txog cov neeg. Thiab tsis txhob thuam koj tus kheej yog vim li cas, kawm zam txim rau me flaws (tsis dhau peb tes num rau lub sij hawm - nws tshwm sim rau txhua leej txhua tus, tab sis, rau Piv txwv li, koj puas hlub). Los ntawm txoj kev, zoo hobby yuav pab tau tsa nws tus kheej-kheej - ncav proven.

Yog li ntawd, peb to taub tias nws tus kheej-kheej yog, piav qhia txog nws theem pib hom. Kuv xav mus rau tom qab nyeem ntawv tsab xov xwm koj honestly xam tau tias yog lawv tus kheej mus rau tej yam qeb thiab, yog tias tsim nyog, ua hauj lwm rau lawv, raws li ib tug noj qab nyob zoo rau lawv tus kheej kheej - tus yuam sij rau kev kawm tau zoo.