Txhua leej txhua tus tej zaum paub kab lus hais tias ib tug neeg txoj kev xav - cov ntaub ntawv uas. Cov cwj pwm zoo ntawm tus txiv neej, qhov yooj yim dua nws lub neej, qhov yooj yim dua nws yog los nrog tus neeg mob thiab lis teeb meem. Niaj hnub no, muaj cov hom kev kawm, yuav ua li cas kho nws tus kheej mus rau ib tug zoo thiab tom qab txhim kho lawv lub neej thiab cwj pwm.
Xav nyob rau hauv txoj kev
Rau ib tus cwj pwm zoo rau cov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau pib xav kom raug, mus rau teb rau dab tsi tshwm sim nrog rau lub luag. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob discontent dig mus rau hauv koj tus kheej, tab tom nrhiav rau flaws. Rau ib qhov zoo hloov nyob rau hauv lawv lub neej yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau pib ntseeg nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej, nyob rau hauv lawv lub zog thiab muaj peev xwm. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob piv rau nws tus kheej thiab nws cov kev vam meej nrog lub achievements ntawm lwm tus neeg, nws yog tsis muaj zoo yuav tsis tau. A tus kheej shortcomings yuav tsum tau kawm tig mus rau hauv zoo, nyob rau hauv uas tig mus ua hauj lwm rau nws cov neeg.
Cais yuav ua li cas attune lawv tus kheej rau qhov zoo, koj yuav tsum tau kawm rau kev txaus siab rau tag nrho cov uas muaj nyob rau hauv lub neej, los ntawm qhov tsawg tshaj plaws rau kev nthuav dav mus rau lub yeej ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub meej thiab cov txheej xwm. Muaj yog ib txwm ib tug neeg uas nyob rau lub sij hawm zuj zus, yog li ntawd koj yuav tsum tsis txhob narekat hmoo thiab yws txog lub neej ntau dua powers.
Cov kev "chaw muag mis nyuj ntawm kev vam meej"
Sib nrug los ntawm cov kev puas siab puas ntsws cwj pwm mus rau ib tug zoo, koj kuj siv tau txoj kev rau kev tsim kom muaj qhov tseeb txoj hauj lwm nyob rau hauv lub neej, uas yog xyaum los ntawm ntau kawm psychologists. Ib tug ntawm cov yog kom muaj ib tug zoo ntawm psycho-chaw muag mis nyuj, uas yuav ntes tag nrho cov zoo uas tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub neej. Ua li no, koj yuav tsum tau tsuas rau muaj ib phau nyob rau hauv uas koj xav sau tej yam zoo yog txhua txhua hnub, dab tsi yog yuav mus nyob rau thaum lub sij hawm hnub, thiab tag nrho cov zoo deeds ua thaum lub sij hawm ib hnub. Muaj koj yuav tau nkag mus rau chaws hais txog zoo, lawv yuav pab tau heev rau qhov kom zoo cwj pwm. Thaum xub thawj, qhov no yuav ua tau ib tug tsim txom, tab sis rau ib txhia lub sij hawm txhua txhua hnub ua rau kuv tus kheej sau cov ntsiab lus zoo, nws yog tau mus siv kom ib tug chaw muag mis nyuj thiab tsis muaj zog npaum. Heev zoo pab nyob rau hauv no chaw muag mis nyuj yuav tsum moments ntawm phem mus ob peb vas los yog kev nyuaj siab, yog li yooj yim npaum li nws yuav ua tau rau tune nyob rau hauv mus rau ib tug zoo, tsis tau txhua yam zoo uas nyuam qhuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub neej.
Cov kev "purple saws tes"
Lwm txheej txheem yog teev koj tus kheej rau qhov zoo - lub pov thawj Uilla Bouena txoj kev "ntawm ntshav kauj-toog npab." Nws essence lies nyob rau hauv lub fact tias rau peb lub lis piam yuav tsum tau muab li tsis zoo xav thiab cov lus hais txog ib tug neeg twg ua kev kawm. Hlua tes uas yuav tsum tau cia li raws li ib tug ceeb toom. Nws yuav ua tau tej kho kom zoo nkauj los yog Fenichka, nyiam saib los yog lub nplhaib, tab sis qhov no kawm yuav tsum tau npog nyob rau hauv ib tes, raws li ntev raws li cov neeg nyob rau hauv lub zoo ntawv, mus txog rau 21 hnub. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg tsoo thiab Naham ib tug neeg saws tes hnav nyob rau lwm cov tes, lub sij hawm ntawm abstinence los ntawm negativity pib suav anew. Raws li statistics, muaj coob tus neeg uas muaj kev koom siv tus qauv no rau ib tug cwj pwm zoo, hloov rau lub zoo dua, pab kom hloov thiab ces lawv cov tsev neeg thiab hlub sawv daws yuav. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, "cov ntshav kauj-toog npab" kuj qhia rau peb kom peb tswj peb txoj kev xav thiab tsis zoo tus cwj pwm txawv thiab yuav pab tau zoo dua ntsuam xyuas thiab, yog tias tsim nyog, thiab re-qhia ntawv rau lawv tus kheej.
Tag nrho txoj kev yuav ua li cas teem koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo, nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej zoo. Lawv yuav siv tau nyob rau hauv ua ke, los yog nyias. Tab sis tseem ceeb tshaj, kom to taub ib tug yooj yim tshaj plaws: zoo - ib tug tseem ceeb heev txoj hauj lwm, uas thaum lub sij hawm yuav ua tau ib qho zoo heev luag rau lub neej.