Yuav ua li cas mus rau teb rau ib qho kev thuam: Lub tswv yim 'seasoned'

Txhua yam ntawm peb tsawg kawg ib zaug nyob rau hauv ib tug lub neej insulted. Nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem, tam sim ntawd xav hais tias tej yam zoo li ntawd, tab sis nws tsis ib txwm muaj cov lus, nqe lus thiab txawm wit. Nyuaj rau sai sai nrhiav tau thiab xaiv qhov yog tshuaj. Peb ua hauj lwm - mus txheeb tawm yuav ua li cas teb rau ib qho kev thuam thiaj li mus ua lub interlocutor tsis yog ib tug condescending smirk thiab hwm koj. Nws hloov tawm mus rau yuav tsis yooj yim li, rau qhov no koj yuav tsum to taub ib tug ob peb yam.

Ua ntej txhua yam lus teb, koj yuav tsum calm down thiab kov yeej ntshai hais tias koj muaj ib tug. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, koj tus nrog sib ntaus yuav xav tias nws tam sim ntawd, thiab yuav tsum nyob rau hauv tus ncej txoj hauj lwm. Nco ntsoov hais tias tus yeeb ncuab yog ntshai ntawm tsis muaj tsawg tshaj li koj li, vim hais tias koj lub dag lub zog - nyob rau hauv kev ntseeg tias koj yuav tsis poob. Hais tias nws yuav pab tau koj nrhiav tau txoj cai tshuaj rau qhov teeb meem no.

Yog hais tias koj inflicted laj mej pej xeem insulting, tsis yog cov lus nyob rau koj cov kev sib raug raws li txoj cai, cov khaub ncaws, los yog cov tsos, ntawm chav kawm, kuv xav mus tam sim ntawd them rov qab cov neeg ua txhaum nyob rau hauv lub npib tib. Tab sis nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no koj yuav nrhiav ua dag, thiab sparring, uas tshwm sim, tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis tis thiab kev raug txim los ntawm lwm tus neeg yuav tsis ua. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws kev pom zoo yuav ces yuav tsuas yuav las mees cov nqe lus: ua txuj hais tias nws tsis pom tus neeg tau ua txhaum rau koj, nws yog tsis txaus siab nyob rau hauv koj, nyob rau hauv lub kawg, nws cia li yog tsis tsim nyog ua koj paub. Koj yuav yeej, ntseeg kuv.

Nws yog nyuaj los txiav txim yuav ua li cas teb cov lus rau ib qho kev thuam mus rau ib tug paub ib tug neeg. Yog hais tias koj them nws ib tug colleague, koj muaj peev xwm yog ua ib tug dag (tab sis nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no, khiav txoj kev pheej hmoo ntawm raug branded ib tug neeg ruam), los yog lwm tus los teb ua lwj ua liam (ces poob nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm tus so ntawm cov neeg ua hauj). Koj yuav tau sim siv cov taunts, uas yuav pab tau kaw lub qhov ncauj, thiab tus neeg ua txhaum yuav ua tau heev witty. Piv txwv li, yog hais tias koj hais lus rau subordinates yuav qhia rau nws cov sab insult teb kab lus xws li: "Koj yuav muaj koj tus kheej lub tswv yim, tab sis nws tsis yog nthuav rau kuv."

Yog hais tias koj los yog ib tug phooj ywg "rau ib tug par", xav txog yuav ua li cas teb rau ib qho kev thuam, nws yog tau mus rau chaw uasi mus rau ib tug nruab nrab variant: "Koj yog heev versed nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no, tab sis koj tau xaiv tsis yog tus zoo tshaj plaws lub sij hawm thiab qhov chaw sib tham txog no lub npe." Yog li, koj yuav tau tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem, ces mus rau noj kua zaub ntsuab rau nws nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm, thaum koj zoo npaj.

Nco ntsoov hais tias nyob rau hauv tej teeb meem no koj yuav tsum tau lo rau cov uas txoj hauj lwm: tsis txhob txhawj, yuav tau tshem ntawm cov kev ntshai thiab kaj siab lug. Tus yeeb ncuab nyob rau hauv no cov ntaub ntawv nws yuav sim mus kaw cov kev kawm, nyob rau hauv thiaj li tsis mus poob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm lwm tus neeg.

Nyob rau hauv hnub no lub ntiaj teb no, vim tu ncua thiab ntev-lub sij hawm kev sib txuas lus nyob rau hauv kev tes hauj lwm, muaj ib lo lus nug li cas mus rau teb rau insults nyob rau hauv Internet. Raws li ib tug txoj cai, ntau interlocutors yeej tsis pom muaj txhua lwm yam thiab tsis sib txuas lus ntaub ntawv. Tej zaum cov teeb meem tshwm sim nyob rau hauv online ua si, qhov chaw uas tw tsis skimp on cov nqe lus ntawm ob leeg zoo thiab tsis zoo. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, koj yuav tuaj koom nrog lub zoo ibyam ntawm cov neeg siv foul lus thiab hais lus dev, tab sis yuav tsum paub hais tias koj los qeb duas li ib tug educated thiab kab ke haiv neeg txiv neej yuav poob, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, nyob rau hauv koj tus kheej ob lub qhov muag. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, tej kev txhaum no yog txhaum kev cai thiab entail kev cai lij choj lav.

Muaj ib co kev cai ntawm yuav ua li cas teb cov lus rau ib tug insult:

1. Sim tig qhov teeb meem no thiaj li hais tias tsis muaj txaus kev sib nrig sib insults thiab accusations. Nws yog tsis muaj zoo yuav tsis tau, thiab tseem tsis tau paub seb koj sib txuas lus nrog tus neeg ntawd. Hmoo - ib tug unpredictable tshaj plaws.
2. Yog hais tias lub insult los nphav koj cov yawm los yog meej mom, tsis txhais txhua yam rau hauv ib tug dag. Sim lolus thiab muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw ib tug cad tsis qw.
3. Xaiv ib lo lus teb rau qhov kev sib tham ntawd.
4. Tham ntau li ntau tau khi laus.

Universal txoj kev mus rau teb rau insult tsis, vim hais tias txhua yam nyob rau qhov teeb meem no thiab cov cwm pwm ntawm tus neeg ua txhaum. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis txhob poob self-control thiab xaiv txoj cai tshuaj.