Tsis ntev los no cov txheeb ze: ib nrab-muam thiab ib nrab-tij laug

Nyob rau hauv hnub no lub ntiaj teb no muaj ntau yam sib txawv degrees ntawm kinship, raws li cov ntshav los yog muas. Tab sis yuav ua li cas to taub tag nrho cov no? Thiab leej twg yog ib nrab-cov kwv tij thiab cov muam?

teeb meem

Tu siab, ib tug ntau ntawm cov tsev neeg lov niaj hnub no. Tab sis cov neeg tom qab no tsis yooj yim txheej xwm feem ntau tsis poob vam cia thiab nkag mus rau hauv tshiab alliances, mus yuav dua. Txhua yam rau nkawd mus yuav zoo, tab sis tsis muaj ib tug paub tias tag nrho cov no xav cov me nyuam uas nyob nrog ib tug niam txiv, lawv xav thiab lawv xav li cas. Sib nrug los ntawm lub fact tias cov tsev neeg muaj ib tug tshiab txiv neej - ib tug txiv tshiab los yog stepmother, lawv tseem muaj ob ntawm lawv cov me nyuam. Tsis txhob kaw cov ntshav cov me nyuam uas kis tau tshiab cov kwv tij nyob rau hauv kev twb kev txuas nrog tsim ntawm ib tug tshiab tsev neeg, thiab yog hu ua pivot. Tsis tas li ntawd Consolidated xam tau tias yog cov kwv tij thiab cov muam, yog hais tias lawv qhia xwb ib leej niam los sis leej txiv.

kev sib raug zoo

Psychologists tsis ua ntau qhov sib txawv ntawm cov tub hluas thiab cov ntxhais uas ua consolidated - tag nrho cov me nyuam muaj feem ntau yog nyuaj rau perceive dab tsi tshwm sim thiab ceg. Tiam sis ntau tshaj feem ntau tsam tshwm sim, yog hais tias muaj yog ib tug neeg hauv tsev neeg, raws li ib tug ib nrab-muam. Vim li cas nws tshwm sim - tsis muaj ib tug paub, ib tug yuav tsuas xav hais tias cov ntxhais ntau tsim kev txiav txim zoo ntawm xam khib ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv thiab lawv tsis xav kom lawv cov txheeb uas sawv daws tau sib koom nrog leej twg.

kev hloov

Yuav ua li cas coj niam txiv yog tias lawv cov me nyuam tau txais ib nrab-tij laug los yog ib nrab-muam? Ntawm no koj yuav tsum mob siab heev rau kiag li txav mus deb ntawm nws tus kheej tus me nyuam, xav mus tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus tshiab tsev neeg. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob thuam thiab rau txim rau cov me nyuam yaus yog hais tias nws protests, nws yuav chim los yog cia li tsis xav mus sib txuas lus nrog cov tshiab cov nus muag. Nws yuav siv ib co sij hawm, cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau siv rau cov kev hloov mus rau txhua lwm yam. Nws yog ib nqi sau cia hais tias ntau cov me nyuam yaus kev ntawm kev tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog rau lawv tsev neeg yog sai npaum li cas thiab yooj yim tshaj, hais tias, cov hluas - nws tseem yog tsim nyog los noj mus rau hauv tus account.

rivals

Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam zoo nkaus li ib nrab-muam los yog tus tij laug, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv tib cheeb tsam, ib tug yuav soj ntsuam lub qhov rivalry nruab nrab ntawm lawv. Lawv yuav ua kom tau ua ntej ntawm txhua lwm yam nyob rau hauv txhua yam: yuav zoo dua nyob rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, mus pab tau ntau dua nyob rau hauv tsev, cia li sib ntaus rau cov xim ntawm cov niam txiv. Cov neeg laus yuav tsum tsis txhob coj nws raws li ib tug kev ua si, nws yog tsim nyog los piav qhia rau cov me nyuam hais tias lawv yog sib npaug zos rau cov niam thiab cov poj koob yawm txwv, yog tsis muaj qho uas txawv ntawm "kuv-koj li", uas cov me nyuam hlub leej niam leej txiv sib npaug. Yog hais tias tag nrho cov rub "nyob rau brakes", koj yuav ces tau ib tug ntau ntawm teeb meem.

Hais txog yav tom ntej

Thaum to taub dab tsi nws txhais tau hais tias ib tug ib nrab-muam thiab ib nrab-tij laug, yuav tsum twb paub lawm hais tias nws yog yuav luag tib lub tsev neeg, raws li cov kwv tij, cov muam, yuav ua tau ib tug me me qhov sib txawv xwb nyob rau hauv cov ntshav. Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, thaum cov me nyuam loj hlob tuaj, lawv tag nrho cov saib txawv thiab pib txaus siab rau tag nrho cov kev sib raug zoo. Xws li ib tug tshaj plaws raws li ib tug "Consolidated" disappears. Nws muaj tsuas yog ib lo lus - ib tug tij laug los yog tus muam. Yog li ntawd, cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau clarified ntxiv nyob rau hauv thaum ntxov ua sawv ntawm sib tam, uas yog ib nrab-tij laug los yog ib nrab-muam - tseem ceeb, uas yuav yuav tsum tau lub neej cov phooj ywg thiab socialize. Thiab yog hais tias koj ua txhua yam li txoj cai nyob hauv lub heev thawj theem, nws yuav ua tau kom tsis txhob muaj ntau yam ntawm cov teeb meem ntawm cov me nyuam kev sib txuas lus nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej.