Koj puas paub tias leej twg los yog dab tsi tej zaum yuav yog qhov zoo tshaj?

Thaum no qhov teeb meem xam nyob rau hauv lub npe nrov "100 mus rau 1" qhov kev pab cuam. Nws nug nyob rau hauv txoj kev zoo tib yam neeg, thiab TV qhia tau hais tias, cov neeg tuaj koom yuav tsum tau twv cov lus teb. Ntawm no yog rau ntawm cov feem ntau nrov teb rau lo lus nug ntawm leej twg los yog dab tsi yuav yog qhov zoo tshaj: ib tug txij nkawm, ib daim duab, kev sib yuav, cov txiv neej, ob peb, tus txiv neej. Tsis pub dhau no tsab xov xwm, peb yuav tsis qhia tag nrho cov tswv yim, thiab ua kom pom tseeb tsuas yog nyob rau hauv lub caij nyoog kawg no. Nyob rau hauv peb lub tswv yim, qhov no yog qhov feem ntau pom tseeb lo lus teb. Yog li ntawd, cov txiv neej zoo meej, uas yog nws?

perfectionism

Perfectionism - qhov chaw kawm siab yuav tsum tau rau cov neeg mus rau lawv tus kheej lub neej. Thaum lawv nug lawv tus kheej cov nqe lus nug: "Leej twg los yog dab tsi tej zaum yuav yog qhov zoo tshaj?" - thiab tsim nyob rau hauv nws lub siab rau cov duab ntawm lub zoo meej txiv neej. Vim li no, lawv yuav tsis lees txais koj zoo tag nrho thiab yuam kev zam txim rau koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv ib yam ntawm cov kev ua si. Lawv tsis txaus siab rau lawv tus kheej li thiab tsis tu ncua nrhiav flaws nyob rau hauv nws lub neej. Cia txiv neej zoo meej ua rau lawv raug kev txom nyem.

Yuav ua li cas?

Yog hais tias koj nrhiav tau cov yam ntxwv ntawm ib tug perfectionist leej twg xav tias nws yeej paub leej twg los yog dab tsi yuav yog qhov zoo tshaj, ces cia li txais no qhov tseeb. Lees rau koj tus kheej, "Yes, kuv thiab kuv xav kom kho tau nws." Tsis txhob liam koj tus kheej rau kev ua yuam kev. On qhov tsis tooj, koj yuav tsum mus rau extract los ntawm lawv cov kev paub.

Kawm, tsim, sim hlub koj tus kheej rau koj yog leej twg. Nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov yuav tsum muaj kev sib raug zoo thiab tshuav nyiaj li cas. Peb qhia rau koj ua nihilists. Muaj tseeb koj twb hnov cov lus "noj qab nyob zoo apathy." Cia li tsis mus deb. Yuav xav txog qhov nqi koj tshuav ntawm kev ua raws cai.

Yog hais tias peb nug cov lus nug: "Leej twg los yog dab tsi yuav tau lub zoo meej", peb yuav teb nws li no: "Nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no muaj yog tsis muaj zoo tag nrho." Tom qab tag nrho, lub txhaum ntawm txhua tus tib neeg, ua rau nws cim. Yog hais tias tus neeg zoo meej, ces lub ntiaj teb no yuav muaj xws li bio-robots. Yog li ntawd, saib lub neej sober, coj koj tus kheej cwm pwm thiab txhua txhua hnub, sim kom tau ib tug me ntsis zoo dua kuv tus kheej nag hmo!