Child foul lus: tau ua thiab daws tau qhov teeb meem

Ib tug neeg siv profanity rau insult thiab poob ntsej muag cov interlocutor, ib tug neeg - nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav ntxiv hais lus expressivity thiab luj, ib tug neeg - cia li xav mus nrhiav nws nyob rau hauv ib tug tej yam lub tuam txhab. Ib txhia hais hlo li obscenities hnov kiag li tsis tsim nyog, thaum lwm tus neeg ua tsis tau dab tsi tshwj xeeb thiab cia li txais nws ua ib feem ntawm nrov kab lis kev cai. Txawm li cas los, nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, thiab nkawd ob leeg pom zoo hais tias kev ua txhaum cai yog tsis tsim nyog rau cov me nyuam. Txhua lub sij hawm thiab nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov haiv neeg, cov me nyuam yog ib txwm txuam nrog ib yam dab tsi kaj thiab huv si, thiab kev phem qias, txawm lub feem ntau ardent admirers ntawm nws yog tsis positioned raws li ib yam dab tsi dawb huv.

Txawm li cas los, txij li thaum cov me nyuam tsis nyob rau hauv nruj kev rho tawm thiab nyob hauv zej zog, foul penetrates mus rau hauv lawv cov lus sib tham. Tu siab, nyob rau hauv tsis ntev los no lub sij hawm rau cov niam txiv yog nce ntsib nrog lub fact tias tus me nyuam yog foul lus hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no? Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog qhov ua rau ntawm no tshwm sim, kev siab xav, precipitated tus me nyuam siv zog hais lus, thiab lub hom phiaj nws xav mus cuag no. Ces koj yuav nyob rau hauv ib tug raws sijhawm, mos mos thiab zoo-tom kas tus cwj pwm.

Tus thawj poob siab

Yog li ntawd, cov me nyuam yaus kawm mus hais lus. Nws muaj kev nyuaj pronouncing ib txhia lus. Thiab ces, nrog rau touches babbling suab nyias muaj phem lo lus los yog kab lus. Cov niam txiv tseem ceeb! Ntxiv cov txheej xwm yog ib tug ntawm cov grooved scenarios. Ua ntej, tus me nyuam kev tsim txom thiab nruj me ntsis txwv tsis pub mus ntxiv rau tso xws lus. Ob, tom qab thawj zaug poob siab thaum xub thawj los ua ib tug tshee luag, thiab ces nws yog tag nrho peb ua tiag tiag tis. Qhov tshij, Kuv yuav tsum! Yog li ntawd me me, tab sis muaj ib yam nkaus thiab! Yuav ua li cas txias! Nyob rau hauv internet koj yuav tau yooj yim nrhiav tau ib tug ntau ntawm cov yeeb yaj duab uas cov ntaub ntawv uas yuav ua li cas cov me nyuam siv hom lus qias neeg. Lus tso dag ntawm no zoo yog heev nrov. Thiab lawv muab lawv cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv pej xeem cov zaub ntau cov niam txiv lawv tus kheej.

tsheb thauj neeg mob

Yog vim li cas ces yeej ib tug me kas foul hom lus? Yuav ua li cas yuav tsum niam txiv ua li cas? Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb yuav tau nco ntsoov hais tias thaum lub hnub nyoog ntawm ob los yog peb lub xyoos, koj tus me nyuam cia li tsis to taub lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov lus. Cia li cov me nyuam muab txhua yam rau tus yoov thiab sim mus tam sim ntawd siv. Tab sis, thaum lub sij hawm no yuav tsum xav txog qhov chaw uas txhua tus me nyuam hnov xws lus. Yog hais tias koj tsev neeg yog ib qho siv hais lus dev los yog cia nyob rau hauv uas tsis tshua muaj mob, tiam sis tseem permissible, ces peb yuav tau npaj rau qhov tseeb hais tias ua ntej los yog tom qab tus me nyuam yuav ua raws li nej tus yam ntxwv. Yog li ntawd thawj ntawm tag nrho cov nws yog tsim nyog los saib xyuas lub purity ntawm nws tus kheej hais lus.

Tsis tas li ntawd, tsim kab zauv me nyuam me me muaj peev xwm hnov los ntawm cov laus cov kwv tij thiab cov muam los yog cov phooj ywg, cov qhua, rau ib tug taug kev los yog TV. Cais kev voj voog thiab ua kev puag ntsoog kas los ntawm kev phom sij "catch" tsis kaj siab lus rau koj. Yog hais tias koj twb tau hnov los ntawm ob xyoo tus me nyuam hom lus, cia li las mees nws. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv tsis hnov mob ua nruj ua tsiv! Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, dejnum tis. Tom qab realizing tias coj koj kev xyiv fab, tus me nyuam yuav sim dua thiab rov mus ua no cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Yog hais tias koj tsis them sai sai, nws yog yuav hais tias tus me nyuam tsuas tsis nco qab coj txawv txawv lo lus rau nws. Nco ntsoov tias, txawm li cas los, hais tias qhov no mus kom ze yog zoo tsuas nrog cov me nyuam ob los yog peb lub xyoos. Thaum ib tug me nyuam kev loj hlob, hloov nws xaav. Yuav tsum tau hloov thiab txuas.

npaj siab mus muab

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntawm peb mus rau tsib xyoo ib tug me nyuam me me muaj txhob txwm tshaj tawm foul lus. Lawm, nws tsis tau nkag siab zoo txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov lus siv. Tab sis qhov tseeb hais tias cov lus no - phem, nws twb to taub. Interestingly, cov kev siv ntawm expletives yuav ua tau ib lub teeb liab tias tus me nyuam desperately sim nyob rau hauv tej txoj kev uas yuav nyiam cov xim ntawm cov niam txiv. Lub mechanism ntawm no phenomenon yog yooj yim txaus, tab sis lub logic ntawm yeej muaj tseeb cov me nyuam.

Xav txog tej yam ib tug yooj yim txhua hnub qhov teeb meem no: cov niam txiv kiag li absorbed kev txhawj xeeb txog koj tus me nyuam - yog li ntawd high-zoo pub, muab tso mus pw rau lub sij hawm, zoo hnav khaub ncaws thiab yuav zoo ua si. Tab sis ntawm no yog qhov tseeb hais tias tus me nyuam kom txaus mus them tus kheej lub sij hawm, siv dag zog, raws li ib tug txoj cai, tsis muaj kev xaiv. "Tuaj thiab ua si", "saib TV", "tus me nyuam niam yog nkees ....". Thiab tus me nyuam yoojyim. Tab sis lub siab xav kom pom tseeb seem. Ces muaj ib hnub, hais tias lub hom lo lus tshiab, nws tau txais cov kev kawm xim! Nyob rau hauv heev tshaj tus neeg mob, tus me nyuam yuav tsis nres txawm ces, nws yuav yog ib tug tsausmuag cov tshuaj tiv thaiv thiab txawm rau txim. Saum toj no tag nrho, nws tam sim no pom tau tias niam thiab txiv yog xav nyob rau hauv lawv.

meej ntawm qhov teeb meem no

Raws li nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm me nyuam yaus, ntawm no nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis tau hnov mob heev ua nruj ua tsiv. Kuv nug txog qhov chaw tus me nyuam hnov cov lus no. Txij li thaum lub hnub nyoog no social vajvoog expands, qhov yuav ua tau ib tug phooj ywg los yog cov neeg nyob ze rau hauv lub vaj. Siv ib tug zoo zoo nyob rau hauv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Koj puas xav kom ib tug tshwj xeeb kev sib raug zoo rau tus me nyuam hais li cas? Tej zaum nws tseem cia li tsis to taub lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov lo lus? Los yog tus me nyuam muaj foul lus consciously, paub txog tias qhov no yog tej yam tshwj xeeb qhia?

Zaum thiab ntsiag to, thiab feem ntau cov tseem ceeb - ncaj qha thiab piav lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov lus. Qhia rau kuv seb lawv yog siv los ua mob rau lwm tus. Puas zoo cov tub hluas thiab cov ntxhais xav ua rau lawv cov phooj ywg? Tab sis yog hais tias tus lwm cov me nyuam hais tias yog, tej zaum, lawv tseem hluas heev thiab ua dag. Thiab lawv tsis paub yuav hais li cas. Ib tug folly kom rov hais dua tom qab lub lwm yam yog tsis tsim nyog. Niam thiab txiv tsis nyiam nws.

Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, sim siv sij hawm ntxiv nrog cov me nyuam. Nws yog yooj yim npaum li mus nqis peev pab rau nws zoo tam sim no es tsis tshem tau kabmob phem ces. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias nyob rau hauv no kev sib tw uas muaj hnub nyoog, cov me nyuam tsis txhob cia li kawm tau sai tag nrho cov khoom ntaub ntawv. Yog lub tsim ntawm cwm pwm, qhov chaw uas koj muaj peev xwm thiab yuav tsum coj ib tug ncaj qha ib feem.

thawj lub tsev kawm ntawv cov teeb meem

Nyob rau hauv junior high kas foul lus ntau zaus nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav tau kev nplua nuj nrog lawv cov phooj ywg. Tab sis tej zaum nws yuav tshwm sim raws li ib tug los annoy cov niam txiv. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog, tus me nyuam no twb yog tag nrho paub hais tias xws li locutions niam txiv tsis nyiam. Thiab nrog nws txhais tes, nws yuav ua tau ib yam ntawm cov kua zaub ntsuab rau tsis kam mus yuav ib yam dab tsi los yog rau txim.

Ntau lub yog vim li cas tej zaum yuav pw nyob rau hauv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv ntawm cov niam txiv rau tus me nyuam ua. Yog hais tias cov me nyuam hnov nyob rau hauv qhov chaw nyob ntawm lo lus "ruam", "neeg phem", "ruam", ces nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav annoy cov niam txiv? lawv yuav siv tib cov qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm. Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, yuav tsis mus saib koj cov lo lus rau censorship.

Kawm tau xav txog lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov lo lus

Kuv xav txog yuav ua li cas rau wean tus me nyuam cog lus, yeej ib txwm pib nrog ib tug tsom xam ntawm nws tus cwj pwm, nws txoj kev sib txuas lus. Thiab tsis tsuas yog tus me nyuam, tab sis kuj mus rau lub tus txij nkawm thiab cov neeg hauv tsev. Tsis txhob hais lus phem los ntawm lawv cov kev sib tham thiab tsis zoo, yam tsawg kawg rau cov me nyuam, cov films thiab TV series, nyob qhov twg no style ntawm kev sib txuas lus yog raug txawm kev lom zem thiab witty.

Thiab thaum nws hnov los ntawm lub qhov ncauj ntawm tus menyuam kawm ntawv phem hais lus, hais kom nws mus piav qhia txog lub ntsiab lus ntawm lo lus. Yog vim li cas nws siv nws nyob rau hauv kab lus no? Yuav ua li cas kev twb kev txuas? Thiab seb koj xav tau nws muaj? Thiab yog vim li cas nws? Nco kiag li nco ntsoov. Cia koj tus me nyuam pom tau tias tsis tau tus yam nyhuv yog shocking, tab sis nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, nws zoo nkaus li ruam nesmyshlonyshem.

Npaj siab los yeej paub

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntawm 10-11 xyoo yog feem ntau ib tug me nyuam nthe obscenities tom tsev kawm ntawv, kev luam tus cwj pwm ntawm ib tug phooj ywg los yog ib tug mlom, seb nws ua tau ib tug actor, ib tug neeg ncaws kab taub, los yog txawm ib tug ntawm cov zajlus cim. Nyob rau hauv no txoj kev nws yog ua kom tau paub txog lawv cov phooj ywg thiab sawv tawm los ntawm cov neeg coob coob. Psychologists ntseeg tau hais tias, siv lus phem lus nyob rau hauv lub hais lus, cov me nyuam npoo unrealized zog. Yog li ntawd, raws li lawv, cov uas mus ua si clubs, koom nyob rau hauv ib co hobby los yog muaj ntxiv cov kev ua ub no yuav tsis siv foul lus. Txawm li cas los, qhov no cov ntaub ntawv yog muaj teeb meem, yog li nws yuav tsis tau heev ntse yuav tau xav txog ntxiv nra panacea.

qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev paub

Kho tus cwj pwm thiab kev hais lus ntawm tus me nyuam, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog vim li cas ib tug me nyuam nthe obscenities. Yog hais tias koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais, ib tug neeg xyaum, sim maj mam muab taw tes kom paub lwm cov piv txwv. Thiab ua li no nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, tsis muaj kinks. To taub hais tias nws attracts cov me nyuam. Siab tawv? Miv? Chaw? Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kev pom. Paub tias koj tus me nyuam nyiam, tos ib tug zoo piv txwv. Nws yuav siv sij hawm, tiam sis nws yog tsim nyog nws.

Tab sis li cas yog hais tias yog lub siab xav mus embellish nws hais lus? Ua nws qhia thiab vibrant? Qhia hais tias cov kev siv sib ntaus sib tua xwb impoverishes qhov kev sib tham. Cia li tsom xam ua ke, raws li evidenced los ntawm kev txom tas li ntawd ntawm phem kab zauv. Nws yog tsuas hais tias ib tug neeg muaj ib tug neeg txom nyem cov ntsiab lus. Piav ntxiv hais tias, kom muab tso rau nws kom raug thiab succinctly, yuav ua tau pab mus rau sawv tawm nyob rau hauv nws kev hais lus.

tub hluas ntxhais hluas muaj teeb meem

Qhov nyuaj tshaj plaws, ntawm chav kawm, nrog cov hluas. Yog hais tias to taub yog vim li cas cov me nyuam siv hom lus qias neeg, yog tus yooj yim rau kev txhim kho qhov teeb meem no, koj yuav tsis tau mus tos nrog cov hluas yooj yim txoj kev. Lawv xav tias heev neeg laus thiab ywj siab, thiab feem ntau tsuas tawm tsam tus system, tiv thaiv cov tsim kev cai, nrhiav ua pov thawj nws ywj siab thiab tus kheej.

Txawm li cas los, nws yuav tsum tau piav qhia hais tias raws li ib tug niam txiv koj muaj cai muab cov kev cai nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev. Thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas yog yuam ua hauj lwm kom ua raws li lawv. Cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm txwv tsis pub siv cov lus nyob rau hauv lawv xub ntiag. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob yuav amiss qhia txog lub keeb kwm ntawm xws li ib tug hais lus. Thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm thiab nug seb puas los yog tsis yog koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais xav ua yuav txuam nrog lub txim txhaum ib puag ncig. Nws yuav sobering.

Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob ua

Yog hais tias tus me nyuam yog foul lus, yeej tsis hnov mob heev ua nruj ua tsiv. Tsis txhob nruab uas tsis yog-mob siab bans. Nco ntsoov mus piav qhia txog yog vim li cas koj tsis xav hnov lub scolding los ntawm tus me nyuam lub qhov ncauj. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob sau lub ob qauv. Yog hais tias koj tsis tau foom phem rau leej twg, thiab tus tib siv rau koj. Thiab nws yuav tsis paub qab hau qhia txog ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm lwm tus neeg. Nrhiav tawm tag nrho cov nyob ib leeg. Qhia kev hwm rau cov kev xav ntawm ib tug tub los yog tus ntxhais. Ces koj yuav tau mus paub tias hais tias lawv yuav qhia tias peb hwm rau koj.