16 tej yam tshwm sim hais tias ib tug colleague tsam koj credibility

Saboteurs nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm - tsis yooj yim dua. Ib txhia ntawm koj lug txhawb cov miv yuav nrhiav kev pab rau sow nyob rau hauv pab neeg no tsis zoo cua. Yog li lawv caum tus kheej nce thiab nrhiav kom tau ib tug insidious nyhuv rau lwm tus neeg. Ib tug tsis ntev los no kev tshawb tau roj rau lub voj voog ntawm "suspects." Nws hloov tawm mus rau phem lug txhawb cov miv yuav mus rau cov neeg uas tsis txaus siab rau nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm. Qhov no lub xeev ntawm affairs yog tsis zoo li kom haum li tus so ntawm lub pab neeg. Psychologists piv tsis zoo cua nyob rau hauv chaw ua hauj lwm nrog ib tug lom roj. Yuav ua li cas yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem no?

Txawm li cas nyob ib ncig ntawm koj, tsis txhob cia koj suspicions ua koj tus kheej paranoid. Txawm hais tias koj xav tau ib tug neeg los ntawm cov neeg ua haujlwm ntawm foul ua si, tsis txhob noj tej yam kom txog thaum tej lub sij hawm twb tsis tau paub tseeb hais tias koj suspicions. Ntawm no yog cov cim qhia tau los ntawm cov uas koj yuav txiav txim tias ib tug colleague tsam koj credibility.

Rau nws, nws yuav yog ntau tshaj li ib tug contest

Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, competitiveness thiab outright ua phem nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm yog heev yooj yim kom paub qhov txawv ntawm txhua lwm yam. Thiab ua ntej koj khwb rau ib tug neeg daim ntawv lo ntawm "saboteurs", kom paub tseeb tias tus neeg no yuav tsum muaj ib yam dab tsi ntau tshaj li ib tug kov yeej koj. Nws muaj peev xwm ua meanly rau kev cuam tshuam koj ib qho tseem ceeb project. Yuav kom ua tau rau tus nees, tus neeg no yuav mus rau tej kev ntsuas txawm liam koj ntawm kev dag ntxias. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, koj tsis yog tus xwb lub hom phiaj nyob rau hauv nws daim ntawv teev.

Nws forces koj mus kom tus tiv thaiv

Txawm tias muaj tseeb hais tias koj yeej yuav tsis tau mus rau hauv ib tug sib cav uas muaj ib tug neeg ua hauj lwm uas koj xav tias ntawm undermining koj credibility, cas nws yeej ib txwm tswj kom muab tso rau koj nyob rau hauv cov kev tiv thaiv. Qhov no yuav tsum koj lub tswb tswb. Nws ua rau koj xav tias yog li nyob rau hauv probation, thiab, feem ntau yuav, nyiag kev npau suav txog koj grand tsis ua hauj lwm.

Kev ua phem raug tsis tau tsuas yog rau koj

Raws li txoj cai, cov neeg, undermining kev ntseeg siab, muaj ob peb ntawm cov neeg raug nyob rau hauv pab neeg no. Yog hais tias ua ntej koj yuav tau hnov xaiv tias cov neeg phem ntawd ib zaug twb tshwm sim los kev puas tsuaj rau ib co ntawm cov neeg ua hauj lwm ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv no lub tuam txhab, kom ib lub qhov muag rau nws. Qhov loj misconception yog ntseeg hais tias nws yuav ua rau koj kev zam.

Nws yog tus huab tais ntawm lus xaiv

Ua hauj lwm - qhov no tsis yog qhov chaw nyob qhov twg cov neeg tig sab hauv tawm "qias neeg ntxhua khaub ncaws." Txawm li cas los, tib neeg qhov no tsis yog lawm, thiab thaum lub sij hawm ib tug noj su so, cov neeg zoo siab qhia rau txhua lwm yam xov xwm los ntawm lub kheej lub neej counterparts. Ib qho ntxiv uas yog hais tias ib co neeg ua hauj lwm tsis nrhiav kev los faus cov dab neeg (zoo luag thiab tsis nco qab), thiab lwm leej lwm tus cia li nyob tsis muaj lawv tsis tau. Tsis yog ib tug zoo heev kos npe yog tias nyob rau hauv koj lub zej zog muaj yog ib tug txiv neej uas yuav paub txog tag nrho cov uas. Nws sau tag nrho cov xaiv uas circulate nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm. Vim li cas nws ua li cas? Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, nws yuav coj kom zoo dua ntawm nqi lus rau lawv tus kheej nce.

Nws sim los cuam tshuam koj

Yog hais tias koj co-neeg ua hauj lwm yog lossi distracting koj los ntawm koj chaw ua hauj lwm, nws tej zaum xav kom koj efficiency ho poob. Yog li, qhov no yuav rhuav tshem ib tug competitor procrastinator. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, muaj cov neeg uas ua nws unintentionally. Lawv yeej tsis paub yuav ua li cas, muaj ib tug uas tsis yog-ib qho tseem ceeb rau txoj hauj lwm thiab heev ob peb kev txiav txim. Yuav kom paub qhov intentions lug txhawb cov miv yooj yim: qhia rau nws tias koj yog tibneeg hu tauj coob ua hauj lwm rau ib qho tseem ceeb tej yaam num. Yog hais tias nws txhob txwm muab tshem tawm, nws txawm rau koj. Tab sis, yog hais tias tus txiv neej no yuav ua txuj tsis to taub koj - ua zoo dev tom.

Nws "forgets" kev ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb rau koj

Thaum cov neeg muaj ib tug ntau ntawm yam tseem ceeb, lawv yeej ib txwm ib yam dab tsi yuav tsum tau overlooked. Tab sis, yog hais tias "tsis nco qab" yog pathological, qhov no yuav tsum coj nej mus rau tej kev xav. Tus txiv neej uas koj xav tias, tsis txij thaum chiv keeb los thov caw koj mus rau ib tug lub rooj sib tham, tus thawj coj tsis nco qab mus hloov cov lus qhia thiab txhob txwm tshaj tawm deleted ib qho tseem ceeb e-mail. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, qhov no yuav tshwm sim rau distraction. Tab sis yog hais tias nws yog pheej rov qab ua dua thiab dua, tus txiv neej no txhob txwm tshaj tawm yuav koj nyob rau hauv qhov tsaus ntuj nti.

Nws kis taug xaiv txog koj

Peb twb tham txog cov taug xaiv nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm. Lawv yog cov inevitable, vim hais tias kev pab neeg ua hauj lwm yuav tsum paub txog lub ntau yam txheej xwm, tej yam tshwm sim nyob ib ncig ntawm. Thiab yog tias koj yog ib feem ntawm qhov kev ua si, nws yuav muaj kev lom zem. Tab sis, yog hais tias koj ua tus protagonist ntawm lus xaiv, nws yog tsis txawj tso dag. Koj paub zoo kawg nkaus zoo hais tias ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm los mus faus dag. Tsis muaj hmoo uas lwm tus neeg yeej ntseeg tias cov lus no. Yuav ua li cas koj xav hais tias, nws ob txhais tes qhov teeb meem?

Nws steals koj cov tswv yim

Ntawm no yog ib tug ntawm lub ntsiab "demolition" pov thawj: nws yeej ib txwm steals koj cov tswv yim, thiab ascribe rau koj tus kheej koj yawm. Koj twb pom nws nyob rau hauv qhov tsos, tab sis tam sim no cov kev muaj tiag confronted nrog no blatant ua los ntawm kev ua phem.

Nws muab nws tus kheej ntxiv powers

Koj colleague yog sawv nrog koj nyob rau hauv tib lub theem nyob rau hauv lub lag luam hierarchy. Tab sis rau ib txhia yog vim li cas, nws txiav txim siab nws yuav muab koj cov lus qhia. Tsis tas li ntawd, lub tswv yim rau koj tias cov neeg ua haujlwm yog inclined mus rau embellish lawv tam sim no thiab yav tag los achievements. Saib kom zoo zoo rau nws tus cwj pwm: ib tug muaj kev vam meej deal rau tag nrho cov uas departments ntawm zog, nws yuav ua tau tus thawj uas yuav muaj kev zoo siab thiab tuav nws ob lub mis.

Nws yog kev sib raug zoo thiab kev ua ub no subversive

Tom ntej no maneuver rau peb daim ntawv teev yog tsis tshua muaj nyias. Cov muaj siab rau kev sib raug zoo undermining tsis pom nrog tus liab qab qhov muag. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, koj tsis xav kom muaj kev pov plob qhov phem tshaj (nco ntsoov tias peb tham txog paranoia?). Tej zaum cov neeg ua tsis ncaj ncees lawm yam tsis muaj ulterior motives. Koj yuav tsum tau ceev faj thaum pheej pom ib yam dab tsi tawm ntawm no alarming daim ntawv teev: koj colleague rau Curry haum nrog nws superiors, muab ambiguous cov lus nyob rau koj qhov chaw nyob, qhia rau jibes nrog gestures thiab qhia tau hais tias kev npau ntawm koj.

Lwm yam neeg ua hauj lwm pib rau kho koj txawv

Koj tsis tau ua dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm mus rau tus neeg ntawm cov neeg hauv koj pab neeg. Yog li ntawd yog vim li cas feem ntau ntawm lawv behaves heev feeb? Lub taub hau los ua ib yam nkaus thiab biased, koj department tus neeg ua hauj lwm pib laim rau koj sideways? Koj yuav tsis to taub dab tsi tshwm sim rau koj ncig? Tej zaum, ib tug neeg twb pib lub ce ntawm lawv cov kev phem kev npaj khomob. Feem ntau cov yuav, nws tau xa lwm tug neeg ntawm pab neeg no nyob rau hauv lub tsis ncaj ncees lawm kev khiav, slandering koj.

Nws siv hloov maj mam tricks

Thaum peb tham txog undermining kev ntseeg siab, qhov no tshwm sim, muaj yog ib tug loj sib txawv uas qhib mockery thiab insults. Tus txiv neej uas koj xav mus xaiv rau lawv tus kheej kev hloov maj mam txoj kev, thiab yuav ua rau lub txawj ntse. Yog li ntawd koj tsis xav dab tsi, tus txiv neej no yuav ntsiag to mus ntxiv nws ua hauj lwm, ua txuj hais tias nws mus txog rau koj tsis tu. Caum koj tawm ceev xwm, nws yuav hais ib smashing tshuab.

Lub cev lus muab nws motives

Raws li koj tau pom los ntawm ib tug neeg uas hais lus qhov tseeb? Ib tug ntawm lub ntsiab kev yog cov mismatch ntawm cov lus uas muaj cov lus piav. Hais lus nrog tus neeg no, saib nws ua. Nws yuav tsis nco qab li wringing nws ob txhais tes, saib mus rau ib sab, kov lub caj dab los yog twirl cov plaub hau nyob ib ncig ntawm nws cov ntiv tes. Thiab qhov no tsis yog ib qho exhaustive daim ntawv teev cov pov thawj, muab ib tug dag xwb.

Nws sim mus hais koj tej yam uas

Yog hais tias ib tug colleague ceeb toom rau koj txog ib tug phem mus ob peb vas thawj, lawv yog cov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev xa. Tab sis, yog hais tias ib tug neeg yog lossi tuaj rau koj, thiab cog nyob rau hauv koj lub taub hau ib tug ntau yam ntawm tsis zoo dab neeg, tus txiv neej sim ntxias koj mus rau radical ua.

Los ntawm nws lub hom phiaj twb raug kev txom nyem lwm yam neeg ua hauj lwm

Ib tug zoo-paub paj lug: tsov txaij hloov nws me ntsis. Tu siab, nws yog. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg tau undermined lub credibility ntawm ib qho ntawm kuv lug txhawb cov miv ib zaug, nws mam li ua nws dua thiab dua. Nws yuav muab piv nrog rau cov cab, penetrated rau hauv lub ripe kua. Tam sim no koj xav tias zoo li nyob rau hauv ib tug nyob ze-xaws pab neeg xub tshwm sim tej pawg neeg nyias, txhua tus uas caum nws tus kheej nyiam.

Koj muaj ib tug phem lawm hais txog tus txiv neej no

Thaum koj nyob nraum soj ntsuam nrog ib tug kws blasting nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau mloog koj qhov. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg teem tiv thaiv koj yog tsis heev tus phooj ywg, koj yuav tsum xav tias tsis zoo deeg.