Quarrels tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tej tsev neeg. Yog hais tias koj tsis txhob muaj teeb meem los yog khom nws nyob rau hauv thawj zaug rau theem, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau lub sij hawm mus kho nws thiab ua rau nws li. Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau kev thaj yeeb nrog kuv niam, yog tias koj muaj ib tug kev sib ntaus? Nco ntsoov tias, tej teeb meem yuav tau daws, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - lub sij hawm mus muab kev txiav txim. Nws tseem ceeb heev tuaj rau ib tug reconciliation nrog lub siab, thiab tsis txhob ntau yuam kev.
Qhov loj tshaj plaws - to taub
Pib nrog kev tsom xam ntawm dab tsi tshwm sim teeb meem. Yog hais tias koj yuav tsis to taub yog vim li cas kuv niam coj ib yam nkaus li ntawd, sim muab nws nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem no tsis yog raws li ib tug txheeb ze ze, tab sis raws li ib tug dog dig tus txiv neej. Muab koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv cov raug mob tog. Thaum lub sib cav sib ceg yog ib yam nkaus thiab turbulent - tos ib tug ob peb hnub mus rau txoj kev chim siab dhau lawm. Nws yog ntshaw tsis txhob poob lub sij hawm, tab sis nco ntsoov, thiab hais tias reconciliation yog tau txawm tias tom qab ntev tsis sib haum. Yog hais tias koj xav tau kev thaj yeeb nrog kuv niam, xav hais tias nyob rau hauv ua ntej yuav ua li cas thiab li cas koj yuav hais. Koj yuav tsum tau pib nrog ib tug apology. Tab sis nco ntsoov tias, raws li ib tug me nyuam, tuaj mus thiab hais tias, "Niam, kuv thov txim," koj tsis tau. Nco ntsoov qhia rau koj tus niam hais tias koj to taub hais tias nws yog vim hais tias dab tsi tshwm sim thiab nws tsis nyiam mus rau offend nws. Yog hais tias lub ntsiab ua rau ntawm lub sib cav sib ceg - cov tsis muaj kev nkag siab, rov sim dua los mus piav qhia nws txoj hauj lwm. Tab sis, yog hais tias hais tau lus tsis ua hauj lwm tawm, muaj tham txog qhov no tom qab.
Yuav ua li cas yuav ua li cas yog hais tias tus kev sib raug zoo yog puas rau ib ntev lub sij hawm?
Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau kev thaj yeeb nrog kuv niam, yog tias koj tau ntev lawm muaj teeb meem nyob rau hauv kev sib txuas lus? Muaj ntau ntau tricks. Nco ntsoov - tsis muaj teeb meem yuav ua li cas laus koj yog thiab yuav ua li cas koj yog ib tug neeg sab nraud tus neeg, rau qhov leej niam koj yeej ib txwm tsis yog zoo caij tus me nyuam. Ib txoj kev zoo los mus txhim kho txoj kev sib raug nrog nws niam - mus tham. Tsis txhob tos kom koj hu rau nws thiab nug seb zoo tshaj plaws mus nyob rau hauv tej yam teeb meem, yuav ua li cas ua noj nws kos npe tais, los yog qhia ntawv rau koj tus me nyuam. Yog hais tias tsis sib haum tshwm sim nyob rau hauv koj tsev neeg vim hais tias ntawm lub nce kev kho mob ntawm cov niam txiv, sim piav qhia hais tias koj txaus siab rau qhov kev kho mob, tiam sis ntau yam uas yog twb tau daws nyob rau ntawm lawv tus kheej. Kawm tau li cas rau re-kev sib txuas lus nrog cov niam, sim mus tsis tu ncua hu thiab tuaj mus xyuas, tab sis, ntawm chav kawm, tag nrho cov mus ntsib yuav tsum tau hauj lwm ua ke. Sim tuaj nrog nthuav kev xaiv rau dai tawm - mus ua ke mus rau ib tug hais kwv txhiaj los yog mus kav khw.
Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau kev thaj yeeb nrog kuv niam zoo nkauj heev thiab thawj?
Caw koj niam tawm mus noj hmo mus rau ib tug lub tsev noj mov los yog mus xyuas, sau ib tsab ntawv nrog rau cov hnub tim thiab lub hom lub tswv yim npaj ua ub no. Nug qhia qhov kev pom zoo. Qhov no muaj tswv yim mus kom ze yuav yeej rov hais dua rau koj niam, txawm yog hais tias nws yog heev tu siab. Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau kev thaj yeeb nrog kuv niam, nws yog rau koj. Nws yog ib advisable mus hais lus thiab sib tham txog qhov teeb meem, tab sis yog hais tias tus sib cav sib ceg tsis yog loj heev, koj yuav muab cia li tsis nco qab txog qhov no qhov teeb meem. Muab niam ib co khoom plig raws li ib tug token ntawm reconciliation, qhia rau peb yuav ua li cas nws yog koj tus nqi. Tsis txhob ntshai mus qhia lawv cov kev xav. Nws tsis yog superfluous mus puag tus heev Nyob zoo tus neeg. Lwm nthuav txoj kev yuav ua li cas muaj kev thaj yeeb nrog nws niam - mus nug dab tsi nws pom vim li cas rau qhov teeb meem. Sim ua ke nrhiav ib txoj kev los daws kom tau qhov teeb meem, vim hais tias nws yog ib tug hais nruab nrab tov yuav yog tus tseem lawm.