Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Yuav ua li cas hnov qab tus hluas nkauj. yuav pab tau yim pab
No lub ntsiab yog tsis yooj yim, tab sis nco ntsoov yam. Yuav ua li cas hnov qab tus hluas nkauj uas dumped, los yog cia li tsis hmoog rau koj? Yuav kom hais tias nws yog ib qho yooj yim ua, nws yog tsis yooj yim sua, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv hais tias rooj plaub no tus teeb meem yuav tsis tau, txoj cai? Peb yog tag nrho cov nyob cov neeg uas muaj tej yam views on dab tsi yuav tsum sib raug zoo uas yog kev hlub.
Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, rau ib txhia ntawm peb cov lus nug - yuav ua li cas sai sai tsis nco qab tus ntxhais, nws tsis nyuab, thaum rau lwm tus - txhua yam yog txawv. Ib txhia hais mav xav hais tias cia tsis lub neej thiab lub ntiaj teb no tsis tsis muaj tus kwv uas lawv adoration. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, ib qho tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv no hais txog no yog hais tias, kom deb li deb raws li lub sib raug zoo nrog tus hluas nkauj loj heev thiab yog hais tias lawv nyob rau tag nrho cov.
Yog li ntawd, yuav ua li cas hnov qab tus ntxhais? Feem ntau, thawj pom zoo los ntawm cov txheeb ze thiab cov phooj ywg yog cov nram qab no: nws yog tsim nyog tso siab rau lub sij hawm uas tag nrho cov khoom! Xws li ib tug txoj kev yog, ntawm chav kawm, muaj peev xwm tsis yog yuav suav nrog tus ceev tshaj, tab sis nws yeej ua hauj lwm. Thaum kawg, txawm hais tias tag nrho rov qab yuav tsis tshwm sim, nws yim cia li dulled.
Lwm pom zoo yog rau tsis nco qab tus ntxhais - yog muaj ib tug tshiab kev sib raug zoo uas tej zaum yuav tsis raws li heev li yav dhau los sawv daws yuav. Yam tsawg kawg nyob rau hauv no txoj kev koj yuav khiav. Uas yog cia li ib tug pib mus pib yos lwm cov ntxhais, kev sib txuas lus nrog rau lawv, muaj kev sib deev tom qab tag nrho cov. Lub "ib tug thiab xwb" yuav tsum maj yuam tawm tswv yim.
Thiab nws yog ua tau rau displace yav dhau los kev hlub, thiab tsis maj tab sis radically. Ib txhia hais mav txawm qhia mloog zoo rau hauv lub merits ntawm cov tshiab hobby. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, ib tug hluas nkauj, koj xav tsis nco qab, muaj yeej flaws uas yuav tsum tau "inflate" rau epic proportions. Los ntawm txoj kev, yuav tau npaj rau qhov tseeb hais tias thaum koj pib hnov qab kuv tus hluas nkauj, nws yuav pib qhia rau koj sai sai. Xws li ib tug tshwm sim tshwm sim.
Cov nram qab no yog ib co tswv yim uas yuav tau nco rau ib tug poj niam, neeg los ntawm cov ib yav dhau los. Ua ntej koj twb tau txais qhov kev pom zoo - mus dislodge los ntawm cov kev xav thiab lub siab lub ntsws ntawm lub qub nyiam. Nws yog ua tau yuav muaj ntau tshaj nqa tawm ib qho kev ntsuam ntawm qhov teeb meem no. Piv txwv li, siv rau kev tso qhov tseeb hais tias txhua yam uas tshwm sim - rau lub zoo dua.
Hluas nkauj uas koj txiav txim siab los tsis nco qab, tej zaum txawm tsis tsim nyog koj, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog tias koj txawb nws rau lub hom phiaj ntawm ib tug neeg lwm tus. Koj nyob nraum tsis cov hnab looj tes uas koj hloov, thiab tsis yog ib tug khaub hlab, nyob rau hauv uas koj yuav so lawv ko taw. Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, koj yuav tsis yuav muaj nuj nqis zoo li feem ntau lwm yam hais mav. Tsis tas li ntawd, tam sim no koj tau ua ib tug dawb tug txiv neej, nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm cov uas yuav qhib li tshiab horizons, tshiab zeem muag rau ib tug romantic kev sib raug zoo. Koj muaj peev xwm tam sim no tswj lawv tus kheej destiny nyob rau hauv nws ib yam. Nws cia li zoo!
Saum toj no nws twb pom zoo kom pib ib tug tshiab kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus ntxhais, thiab tej zaum tsis yog ib tug. Los sis tej zaum, koj yuav luag ntxhi ib tug tshiab kev hlub? Ntawm no nyob rau hauv kev muaj peev xwm tsis tawm tswv yim vim hais tias qhov teeb meem yog solved txiav.
Heev zoo, yog tias koj yuav nrhiav tau solace nyob rau hauv cov phooj ywg, ib co hauj lwm, hobby, haujlwm, mus ncig teb chaws. Los ntawm txoj kev, nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug teeb meem no, ib tug txiv leej tub tau mus rau lub yeej thoj nam, thiab nyob rau hauv cia li ib tug ob peb hnub, tau ntsib nrog lwm tus ntxhais. Thaum xub thawj nws yog ib qho kev nthuav qhia, uas loj hlob mus rau hauv ib tug phooj ywg, thiab tom qab ntawd - nyob rau hauv kev hlub. Tiag tiag li cwj pwm txawv thiab kev tshoov siab yuav pab tshem lub neej ex-hluas nkauj.
Yog hais tias koj muaj txhua txhua hnub saib nws tus qub hlub, tias koj yuav ua si qhov kev ua si: demonstratively las mees tus hluas nkauj. Tej zaum zoo heev pab. Nyob rau hauv xws li mob, ib tug ntau ntawm cov hais mav mus drastic ntsuas los ntawm burning tag nrho cov txuas hniav. Hais tias yog tag nrho cov uas yog reminiscent ntawm cov qub tej yam txaus siab, kev sib raug zoo yuav raug rhuav tshem. Piv txwv li, ces muab pov tseg tag nrho cov hom hairpins, handkerchiefs thiab cov duab yuav mus ua txhaum thiab muab pov tseg ib yam nkaus thiab. Tej zaum nws yog cov kev ntsuas coj tiag tiag nyem.
Tsis txhob hnov qab tias koj yog ib tug txiv neej tiag, uas nyob rau hauv lub neej no tsim nyog rau tag nrho cov qhov zoo tshaj plaws. Yog hais tias tus hluas nkauj koj txawb, nws txhais tau tias nws yog tus "zoo tshaj plaws" yog tsis muaj, thiab txoj hmoo ntawm txoj kev mus rau tshem tawm nws los ntawm koj lub neej.
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