Qhua - nws ... yog soj ntsuam nrog lub tswvyim

Heev feem ntau peb hnov lo lus "sab nraud." Qhov no yog vim li, vim hais tias peb nyob nyob rau hauv ib haiv neeg uas yog paub tias yuav tau mas nce mus nce los. Nws yog qhov chaw thiab cov thawj coj, thiab qhov nruab nrab neeg, thiab, ntawm chav kawm, cov neeg raug ncaws tawm.

Tej zaum yeej ib txwm tau, thiab yuav tsum tau cov neeg uas, yog ib tug vim los yog lwm tsis haum mus rau hauv lub pab neeg. Cov neeg txawm ncav qhia tau. Yog li, ib tug qhua - yog ib tug neeg uas rau ib tug ntau yam ntawm tshwm sim, nws puv tawm, raws li nws twb yuam tawm tshaj cov haiv neeg nyob rau hauv uas nws tshwm sim.

Yog vim li cas yog muaj xws li cov neeg? Nco ntsoov tias, nyob rau hauv koj cov chav kawm yog yuav luag yeej ib tug neeg uas ua phem los sis lub hlwb, los sis hais tias yog tshwj xeeb tshaj yog frightening, lub cev. Yog li ntawd dab tsi yog qhov vim li cas rau qhov no tus cwj pwm mus rau tus neeg? Qhov tseeb hais tias txhua txheej yog muab faib mus rau hauv cov haiv neeg tseem finer khaubncaws sab nraud povtseg (los yog me me), uas yog muab ib tug tej yam muaj pes tsawg tus ntawm qhov chaw cov neeg uas sib txawv chaws. Piv txwv li, muaj yog ib txwm ua tau xws li ib tug kev sib raug zoo pab pawg neeg raws li "cov neeg tseem ceeb". Lub tsev kawm ntawv, raws li ib tug txoj cai, cov tub hluas thiab cov ntxhais ntawm muaj myiaj tsev neeg. Muaj kuj yog li-hu ua "nruab nrab" - cov me nyuam, tsis yog tshwj xeeb zoo kawg li, muaj nyob rau hauv zoo relations nrog classmates thiab cov xib fwb. Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, ib tug tshwj xeeb qhov chaw yog muab rau neeg sab nraud. Nws yog nthuav tias lawv yuav tsis yeej yuav ua tsis tau. Txawm li cas los, tus xov tooj ntau tshaj peb, dhau lawm, muaj txoj cai mus rau lub neej, raws li ib tug tib neeg txoj cai dhau "ib Rev ntawm losers."

Yog hais tias yog ib tug vim los yog lwm qhua yog tawm ntawm pab neeg no, nws qhov chaw nyob tam sim ntawd yuav siv sij hawm ib tug neeg lwm tus. Yog vim li cas? Cov me nyuam (thiab cov neeg laus) qhov tseem ceeb tsis tshua txawv tib neeg. Qhua - qhov no yog nyob rau cov nuj nqis ntawm tag nrho cov lwm tus neeg uas xav tias zoo dua, "saum toj no." Lawv twb paub lawm hais tias lawv muaj ib tug xov tooj ntawm drawbacks (tsis ntse heev, ntxim hlub, lub cev txoj kev loj hlob, thiab hais txog. D.), Tab sis vim hais tias lawv cia li yuav tsum tau paub hais tias muaj ib tug neeg zuj zus tshaj lawv yog.

Koj puas muaj ib tug neeg siab tsis ncaj tej zoo xws li cov tej yam tshwm sim? Yuav ua li cas los mus txiav txim lub feem ntau yuav hais tias ib tug neeg (tus me nyuam los yog neeg laus) - ib tug raug qhua? Lub unequivocal lo lus teb rau cov lus nug no. Txawm li cas los, raws li ib tug txoj cai, cov neeg uas muaj kev tsis taus, raug kaw, tsis muaj zog muaj peev xwm nyob rau hauv dab tsi los xij. Hais tias yog, lawv chiv - tus neeg. Nyob rau lwm cov tes, muaj mob thaum lub yog vim li cas rau tsis zoo cwj pwm yog, on qhov tsis tooj, koj muaj peev xwm. Uas yog vim li cas tus xov tooj ntawm neeg siab tsis ncaj feem ntau muaj xws li honors.

Raws li statistics, lub feem ntau heev qhua lub tsev kawm ntawv kev puas siab ntsws - yog qhua. Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog tus me nyuam ntawm ib tug uas tsim nyog tus kws kho mob yuav tsis tau overestimated. Nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev kawm ib tug ntau ntawm lub sij hawm yuav tsum tau muab rau paub nws zoo, muaj tseeb weaknesses, raws li zoo raws li cov kev siv ntawm ntau hom ntawm ce nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim rau nws mus puas so kom txaus.

Txawm tias muaj tseeb hais tias ib tug qhua - yog feem ntau ib tug teeb meem ntawm lub collective, uas yog ua los ntawm cov tib neeg ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv uas muaj hnub nyoog thiab thaum kawm ntawv qib siab hauv tsev, thiab thaum ua hauj lwm, qhov no tshwm sim yog tseem heev ntau.

Cov neeg uas muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog los yog cia li xav nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem, uas peb tau tsuas scratched qhov chaw soj ntsuam nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm, kuv xav qhia rau nyeem ib phau ntawv. Nws yog hu ua "geniuses thiab outsiders" (sau - M. Gladwell). Peb cia siab tias nws yuav pab koj to taub ntau yam teeb meem thiab ua muaj zog.