Peb txiav txim seb tus ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam rau lub tsev kawm ntawv: seb puas yuav tos kom mus txog rau 7 xyoo?

Kev tsis txaus siab ntawm cov neeg uas ntseeg tau hais tias ib tug me nyuam yog ib qho zoo kom muab mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm 6 xyoo, thiab cov neeg uas yog cov tswv yim hais tias nws yog zoo dua tos kom txog thaum 7 nyob mus ib txhis. Uas yog vim li cas nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov niam txiv intuitively xav tias seb lawv nyiam tus me nyuam yog lub sij hawm mus nrhiav tus zoo lub ntiaj teb no ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv, nrog rau tag nrho nws cov yeej thiab muaj teeb meem. Tej zaum nws yog zoo dua tos ntev me ntsis? Muaj ntau ntau yam tseem ceeb uas cuam tshuam cov me nyuam npaj txhij rau lub tsev kawm ntawv.

Puas siab puas ntsws, kev xav thiab kev npaj txhij rau lub tsev kawm ntawv

Nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw, ntawm chav kawm, muaj cov yam ntawm lub thiaj li hu ua "kev loj hlob". Ua li cas nws txhais li cas? Rau lub tsev kawm ntawv yeej npaj cov me nyuam yaus uas muaj ib tug tej yam tsis pom, kev paub txog lub ntiaj teb no nyob ib ncig ntawm nws, nws muaj peev xwm yuav tau nco ntsoov, muab txhais los sib piv. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tias tus me nyuam no twb yog zoo-hais thiab muaj peev xwm articulate lawv cov kev xav. Tshwj xeeb yog ib qho tseem ceeb yog cov muaj peev xwm los tswj lawv cov cwj pwm.

Emotional ntawv rau lub tsev kawm ntawv yog kev lom zem ntau los ntawm tus muaj peev xwm assiduously koom nyob rau hauv tej yam uas yuav ua tau kom tus me nyuam tsis yog ib yam nkaus thiab nthuav. Nyob rau hauv ib lo lus, nws yog hais txog lub peev xwm los nkag siab txog cov ntsiab lus ntawm "tsim nyog".

Socio-tham ntawv rau lub tsev kawm ntawv nyob rau ob qho tag nrho cov muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog lawv cov phooj ywg, tsim kom muaj kev sib cuag thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo, thiab rau nws cov muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg laus (tsis ua li cas tsis zoo, kev to taub txoj cai ntawm cov txwj laug).

Thiab thaum kawg, yog ib lub tseem ceeb tshaj uas txiav txim tus me nyuam cov ntawv rau lub tsev kawm ntawv yog ... lub siab xav ntawm tus me nyuam mus.

Mini xeem J. Cheypi

Yuav kom txiav txim xyuas seb lub tsev kawm ntawv yog npaj txhij rau koj tus me nyuam, koj yuav tau siv ib mini-xeem, tsim los ntawm lub American psychologist G. tus me nyuam. Cheypi. Ntawm no yog cov lus nug yooj yim ntawm nws.

Cov yooj yim kev ntawm tus me nyuam

• tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj ib co paj;
• koj yuav tsum nyeem nws tsawg kawg yog ib ob peb phau ntawv;
• tsawg kawg ib zaug ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum mus ntsib lub tsev cia puav pheej, zoo los yog cov tsev qiv ntawv;
• koj yuav tsum tsis tu ncua mus nrog tus me nyuam pej xeem qhov chaw: ncej chaw ua hauj lwm, khw, cov tsev txhab nyiaj, thiab lwm yam

lub cev txoj kev loj hlob

• tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj tej yam teeb meem nrog lub rooj sib hais;
• nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb hais tias ua ntej tsev kawm ntawv txhua txhua tau teeb meem tsis pom tau lawm tias (yog tias tsim nyog - sau cov ntsiab lus);
• tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau nws tus kheej mus thiab nce thiab nqis lub stairs, ua si nrog rau lub npas;
• nws yog ntshaw uas cov me nyuam yaus yuav yooj yim siv tej lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv ib qho chaw.

hais lus txoj kev loj hlob

• tus me nyuam confidently hu cov khoom nyob ib ncig ntawm nws;
• nws muaj peev xwm txhais tau cov kev kawm ntawm kev muaj tiag thiab piav qhia txog lawv lub hom phiaj;
• zoo heev yog tias ib tug me nyuam muaj peev xwm txiav txim rau txoj hauj lwm ntawm tej yam uas nyob rau hauv qhov chaw (saum toj no lub txaj, nyob rau hauv ib tsob ntoo, thiab lwm yam);
• tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau ib tug zoo diction;
• nws yuav tsum tau los tsim kom tau tsawg kawg yog ib tug txheej thaum ub zaj dabneeg.

lub siab lub ntsws txoj kev loj hlob

• tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj feem xyuam rau lub tswv yim uas yuav mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv zoo (raws li, tseeb, thiab mus rau lub ntiaj teb no);
• yooj yim yuav hloov lub siab zoo ntawm kev ua si;
• puas siab puas ntsws ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam mus kawm ntawv kuj yog nyob ntawm seb cov kev ua si ntsiag to (thiab lees txais swb) tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv kev ua si qhov twg muaj ib tug keeb ntawm kev sib tw;
• Me nyuam me kaj siab lug nyob rau hauv nws lub peev xwm.

kev txawj ntse loj hlob

• tus me nyuam pom qhov sib txawv thiab zoo sib xws ntawm cov khoom;
• yog tau paub qhov txawv ntawm cov tsiaj ntawv ntawm cov tsiaj ntawv;
• qho yooj yim kawm lo lus tshiab thiab cov nuj nqis qhia cov duab;
• yuav tsim ib daim duab ntawm lub storyline;
• zoo, thaum tus me nyuam yog nyob rau hauv koj tus kheej cov lus rau rov qab qhia dua zaj dab neeg, ua kom zaj dab neeg kab.

kev sib txuas lus

• ib tug me nyuam tej zaum yuav pib qhov kev ua si twb pib;
• Nws paub yuav ua li cas ua tib zoo tsis interrupting lub interlocutor, mloog;
• muaj peev xwm tos lawv tig thaum uas tsim nyog.

Yog hais tias koj muaj kev tsis ntseeg nyob rau hauv ntau tshaj li 20% cov ntsiab lus - feem ntau yuav nyob rau lub sij hawm ntawd tag nrho ntawm cov me nyuam npaj txhij rau lub tsev kawm ntawv yog tsis muaj, thiab nws yog zoo dua rau ncua sij hawm no. Los yog pib ib qho nyuaj rau ua, mus ua rau poob lub sij hawm.