Lub meej mom ntawm tus txiv neej thiab nws cov weaknesses

Tab sis yog nws yog ntseeg hais tias tus txiv neej yog tsim los ntawm Vajtswv nyob rau hauv nws cov duab thiab likeness, nws yog ib tug ua txoj kev txhaum thiab txhaum xwb. Txawm li cas los, tib neeg meej mom thiab undeniable raws li nws cov shortcomings. Thiab tus naj npawb ntawm cov raug muaj xws li xws unattractive zoo li muaj nuj nqis, kev ntshaw, kev khib, kev raug txim, intolerance, obstinacy, thiab hais txog, rau hauv daim ntawv yuav ua tau ntev. Muaj ntau ntawm cov qualities, hmoov tsis, yog pw nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg los ntawm thaum yau, uas yog lub txiaj ntsim ntawm kev upbringing ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv niam txiv tsev neeg.

Meej mom thiab tib neeg flaws tsis tshwm sim nyob rau hauv nws, thiab mam li nco dheev tag nrho cov ntawm ib tug Sudden, nws yog to taub. Rau hauv lub tsim ntawm yus nta ntawm tus me nyuam lub cim yog thov txhais tes txhua yam los ntawm cov niam txiv thiab lub puab vajvoog, thiab ntxiv rau cov qib kindergarten, tsev kawm ntawv thiab thiaj li nyob. Piv txwv li, yog tias ib tug me nyuam, tus me nyuam yog lossi caum thiab yuam mus tsuag tsuag, thaum nws twb yuam kom khiav rau ib tug loj tus naj npawb ntawm cov voj voog thiab khej, sim ua txhua yam, pub kom nws yuav foom phem rau - nws tsim xws li ib tug zoo li siab luv. Cov tib stubbornness tshwm thaum cov niam txiv tseem tabtom tag nrho cov sij hawm los mus tiv thaiv cov xav li cas ntawm tus me nyuam thiab ua rau nws tsis tu ncua lawm ntawm kev tawm tsam thiab tej kev txog kev, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, nws leads mus rau kev nkauj kev nraug thiab arrogance.

Tsis zoo, raws li tau zoo raws li lub meej mom ntawm tus txiv neej, ntawm chav kawm, muaj cag tob tob. Greed peev xwm yuav tsim nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam los ntawm ib tug tsis muaj kev hlub thiab kev saib xyuas los ntawm qhov no yuav kuj tshwm sim tag kev cia siab thiab despondency, uas yuav ua ces mus rau nws tus kheej-abasement. Ces tus thawj zoo nkaus li yuav suppressing nws lub siab nyiam, raws li nyob rau hauv tej yam tib neeg ntshai, cov neeg siab phem, servility, uas tsis coj nws mus nws tus kheej-kheej thiab nws tus kheej-kheej.

Yuav ua li cas yog - lub meej mom ntawm tus txiv neej, raws li lawv hais tias lawv yog nyob rau hauv lub neej thiab cwj pwm? Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, raws li cov phau ntawv txhais lus Dahl, meej mom - qhov no hwm, ib tug txheej ntawm sufficiently siab ncaj ncees qualities. Thiab tsis txhob xav yuam kev rau nws nrog arrogance, lawv yog cov tag tej yam txawv. Thaum peb hais tias tus txiv neej no tsim nyog, lawv txhais hais tias nws yog nyog ntawm kev hwm, vim hais tias ntawm nws cov nqi tus kheej zoo, coj tus cwj pwm nyob hauv zej zog, kev ua thiab thiaj li nyob. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg pib inflate nws cov nqi, nws yuav khav, poob, yog li, hwm koob meej thiab meej mom ntawm tus neeg. Yog li ntawd, peb yuav tsum to taub hais tias nws yog kiag li tej yam txawv.

Zoo thiab tsis zoo ntawm tus neeg tseem coj zoo lawm, thiab thaum twg nws yuav raug tso tawm los ntawm thaum yau nyob rau hauv tus ntawm lub neej. Qhov zoo kev luj xyuas ntawm nws tus cwj pwm, kev ua, elevates nws nyob rau hauv cov pej xeem qhov muag. Nws muaj peev xwm muab nws lub dag lub zog thiab lub siab xav mus nrog lawv qaug zog thiab siv zog rau ntxiv txoj kev txhim kho. Tsis zoo tib yam kwv yees los ntawm pej xeem lub tswv yim yuav ua tau kom aggravation ntawm cov shortcomings, yog li tob, qhov kev soj ntsuam yuav tsum muaj lub hom phiaj.

Tus nrog paub txog lub meej mom ntawm tib neeg lub neej yog ib qho kev ntsuam xyuas txog nws kev ncaj ncees qualities. Qhov ntau cov lus hais nyob rau hauv nws zoo xws li lub siab dawb paug, kev sib hwm rau lwm leej lwm tus, generosity, siab dawb siab zoo, siab dawb paug, npog lub cev, rhiab heev thiab thiaj li nyob, tus loj dua cov nqi ntawm xws li ib tug neeg yog haiv neeg. Raws li, yog hais tias tus niam txiv xav kom lawv cov me nyuam kom loj hlob ib tug tsim nyog tug tswv cuab ntawm cov haiv neeg, lawv yuav tsum nteg ib tug me nyuam thiab tsim nws, cov zoo qualities.

Nws kuj muaj xws li:

- txo. Qhov no yog thaum ib tug neeg, txawm nrog ntau yam zoo, behaves thiab tsuas discreetly, tsis su tawm thiab lawv yeej tsis bragging.

- kev txaj muag thiab lub siab. Kev cai dab qhuas cov neeg hais tias nws yog lub suab ntawm Vajtswv tsis pub dhau txiv neej hais rau nws tias yog dab tsi zoo thiab yam twg phem thiab ua rau yus mus rau ib tug lub siab xav mus hloov siab lees txim ntawm lawv tej kev phem deeds.

- Honor. Qhov no kev coj tsis ncaj hauv paus ntsiab lus thiab tib neeg zoo, tsim nyog ntawm kev hwm nyob rau ib feem ntawm zej zog.

- Self-esteem. Muaj no lawm cov neeg yuav tsis ua mob leej twg daring insult, poob ntsej muag los yog txaj muag rau lwm tus.

Qhov no yog qhov kom zoo dua ntawm sib txuas lus nrog ib tus neeg muaj meej mom thiab koob meej.