Koj tuaj yeem hu xov tooj rau ib tug txiv leej tub?

Dab tsi ntawm tus neeg tsis hlub hlub thiab ua siab zoo rau nws tus kheej? Txawm hais tias muaj kev sib ntaus sib tua nrog lub pob txha thiab lub siab tawv me ntsis zais npau suav ntawm lo lus qab ntxiag. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog hais tias nws suab ntawm lub qhov ncauj ntawm ib tug neeg kim. Tab sis yog hais tias nws yooj yim rau ib tug ntxhais yuav tsum khaws cov lus sib tw: nws yuav ua tau ib tug miv, thiab ib lub hnub, thiab zainko - yuav ua li cas affectionately hu rau ib tug txiv leej tub los qhia nws txoj kev xav thiab tsis yuav heev sugary? Koj tuaj yeem hu xov tooj rau ib tug txiv leej tub? Ua ntej, koj yuav tsum to taub cov lus nws xav txog kev hlub. Yog tias koj tsis txaus siab txaus, thiab nws yog teeb meem rau koj los ua lub npe zoo tshaj plaws rau koj tus hluas nraug, koj tuaj yeem ua rau kom muaj kev qhia zoo rau txhua yam. Cov lus hais xws li "kuv tus kheej", "ib tug thiab xwb," yuav tsis tawm ntawm nws tus kheej, thiab nws yuav nkag siab hais tias koj tab tom muaj nws. Ua li no, nco ntsoov hu tus txiv leej tub affectionately.

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Tab sis tsis yog lo lus tseem ceeb xwb, tab sis kev sib haum xeeb tseem ceeb thiab kev xav. Ib tug txiv neej tuaj yeem hu ua "my cockroach" lossis "piglet", tab sis nws yog qhov qab zib heev thiab kev hlub uas nws yuav siv cov lus no nrog kev lom zem. Thiab koj tuaj yeem ua tau, xws li siv phom tshuab, sau ntawv los ua lus zoo thiab maj mam thov, tab sis ua nws tsuag tsuag, tsis muaj kev xav, tsis muaj kev xav xim - ces txhua yam yuav tsis muaj dab tsi. Lo lus zoo rau ib tus neeg hlub yuav tsum nrov ua ntej ntawm txhua yam hauv kev ntshai. Nws yog ib qho tseemceeb uas yuav tsum tau mloog cov lus thiab kev sib raug zoo, vim nrog lawv pab koj nkag siab rau tus txiv leej tub tias koj yog tib tug nws tau tos nws lub neej tag nrho. Muaj cov ntxhais uas nws tus cwj pwm los yog nws tsis tu tsis pub lawv pom lawv tus cwj pwm ntawm ib tus neeg hlub. Lawv ntseeg hais tias "ib txwm zoo" thaum pib ntawm hnub thiab "zoo hmo" - nyob rau hauv qhov kawg yog txaus. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog. Txiv neej xav hnov cov lus zoo heev npaum li cov ntxhais, tab sis tsis txhob tham txog nws. Tsis txhob ua txhaum koj lub taub hau lawm yuav ua li cas affectionately yuav hu ua ib tug txiv neej, hu rau txoj kev uas koj tam sim no qhia koj lub siab. Cov lus hais sib tham thiab los ntawm lub siab, kov ntau ntau dua cov uas nyeem hauv cov ntawv thiab ua tib zoo qhia. Ua koj tus kheej, hais dab tsi koj xav hais tias tam sim no.

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Thiab me me tab sis tseem ceeb zais: tag nrho cov txiv neej yeej nyiam mloog cov epithet "feem ntau". Hauv kev sib txuas lus, nws tsis muaj lub ntsiab lus tshwj xeeb. Peb tuaj yeem hais tias "qhov no yog hnub nyuaj tshaj plaws" los yog "txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws", tsuas yog ob peb yam tseem ceeb ntawm ntau tus neeg tam sim no. Tab sis thaum nws tawm los rau txoj kev sib raug zoo ntawm ob tug neeg, txhua yam yog kev hloov pauv. Tsis txhob xav txog li cas koj hu tau rau ib tug txiv leej tub, cia li ntxiv rau cov lus uas tuaj rau koj lub siab "tshaj plaws", thiab koj yuav pom "kev txauv rov qab hloov." Kev thov "qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws", "tus tseem kim tshaj", "tus neeg hlub tshaj plaws" yuav cia nws xav tias kev zoo siab, kev mob siab thiab kev zoo siab los ntawm koj los ntawm nws. Koj tuaj yeem xaiv lub npe menyuam yaus rau tus txiv leej tub, piv txwv tias "dais cub" lossis "miv". Tig mus rau nws zoo li ntawd, saib cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Lub npe menyuam yaus yuav tsum tsis txhob hais lus phem. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tias koj nyiam nws ob qho tib si. Hauv qhov no, nws yuav tsis tsim nyog nug cov nqe lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas affectionately koj hu tau rau ib tug txiv leej tub" - lub npe zoo yuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv txhua txhua hnub lub neej nws tus kheej. Thiab koj yuav txaus siab rau ntau dua ib hnub.