Khub niam txiv tsis xav yuav tsum tau criticized rau nws: 9 khoom

Foom phem rau cov neeg qhov txhia chaw. Lawv tsis tseg leej twg. Cuaj kaum, lawv nyiam lub npe ntawm kev sib tham - khub. Nyeem rau paub txog 9 yam uas tej khub tsis xav hnov cov accusations.

1. Vim li cas lawv hu rau txhua lub lwm yam nicknames

Muaj yog tsis muaj dab tsi ceeb nyob rau hauv lub fact tias feem ntawm tag nrho cov neeg "bunnies" thiab "cov ntsaws ruaj ruaj" zoo li cloying thiab unnatural. Tab sis hu xov tooj rau txhua lwm yam zoo thiab ntxim hlub npe tseem ceeb heev rau lovers, vim hais tias nws satisfies lub siab ntsws xav tau kev pab ntawm cov ob peb. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, lub tshuaj hormones lub luag hauj lwm rau qhov no ntau tshaj tej zaum koj yuav xav hais tias.

Lwm vim li cas yog vim li cas peb thiaj li xav kom nqi thiab hais nkwg nrog ib tug neeg koj hlub raws li ib tug me nyuam, yog hais tias nws cov ntaub ntawv ib tug kev twb kev txuas ntawm lub tib lub nrog ib tug neeg raws li ntawm leej niam thiab me nyuam mos liab thaum nws puag nws. Nws yog zoo li ib tug zoo nkaus li animates tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm biochemical kev hloov tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub cev. Thiab nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, tsis yog ib tug private teeb meem khub niam txiv - hu txhua lwm yam no txoj kev thiab tsis yog?

2. Rau qhov tseeb hais tias lawv muaj ntau haiv neeg

Cov neeg pom ib lwm haiv neeg ob peb lub thiab pib nug lawv cov lus nug xws li "Yog muaj ib qhov txawv nyob rau hauv txaj?" thiab "Koj puas tau xav yuav zoo li koj cov me nyuam?". Yog hais tias koj tseem pom lwm haiv neeg khub niam txiv raws li ib yam dab tsi coj txawv txawv thiab tsab, txawm tsis twv hu kuv tus kheej ib tug tiv thaiv tus neeg. Yog vim li cas yog koj li kev txhawj xeeb txog dab tsi tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lawv lub txaj? Thaum kawg, lub sij hawm tau tuaj rau cov neeg thaum xaiv ib tug khub ntawm ib tug txawv haiv neeg, peb yuav tsis ntsib txhua hnub "huag-huag-kuv-koj-saib-nws" nyob rau hauv txoj kev.

3. Rau cov fact tias lawv tuaj

Ib zaug ntxiv, ua koj xav hais tias koj yog hnyav thiab advanced cov neeg, tab sis yog tias koj muaj ib tug taboo rau pej xeem sib yuav, koj nyob nraum tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Xav txog nws, hais tias nws yog ntau zajlus kom - tsiv mus nyob rau nrog ib tug tag nrho cov Hmoob thiab tau los sib paub los yog txav mus nyob rau hauv nrog ib tug tag nrho cov Hmoob, tab sis tom qab koj nyob nraum sib yuav? Lub ntiaj teb no yog mus rau pem suab, tsis muaj ib tug confuses nrog txiv neej pw ua ntej sib yuav, tab sis yog vim li cas, ces, mus rau nyob ua ke - qhov no yog coj txawv txawv? Yog hais tias koj xav kom txiav txim neeg nyob rau hauv ib tug khub rau lub fact tias lawv tuaj, tsis txhob muaj txoj cai tam sim no. Tswv yim rau koj lub neej koj yuav hloov tsis tau, tab sis mus yaum nws mus rau lwm tus neeg cia li tsis muaj nqis rau nws.

4. Rau cov fact tias lawv yog ua ke xaiv lub tsev so, nyob qhov twg nyob twj ywm

Yuav ua li cas yog li ntawd, ceeb txog qhov ntawd? Lawv yog cov - ib tug khub, thiab lawv yuav tsum lawv chav tsev nyob. Tab sis rau ib txhia yog vim li cas, yog hais tias lawv tsis tau sib yuav, menedezhery ib co cov chaw ntiav pw ua rau lawv kis tau los ntawm ib qho kev txom series ntawm cov lus nug mus rau ib tug reservation. Tab sis qhov tsawg kawg nkaus ntawm kev hwm, uas muaj peev xwm muab ib tug khub - yog tsis nug lawv paub meej tias lawv kev sib raug zoo. Thiab yog vim li cas? Ib tug sib yuav daim ntawv pov thawj tsis yog dab tsi.

Ib tug striking fact, tab sis nyob rau hauv Indian cov chaw ntiav pw yuav tsis nyob twj ywm txiv ob peb (yog hais tias nws yog ib tug txiv leej tub thiab ib tug ntxhais). Nws yog tsis tsuas funny, tab sis kuj qhia tau hais tias yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv lub npe ntawm kab lis kev cai, cov neeg hla tus ciaj ciam mus yuav tsoos / yuav stereotyped.

5. Vim hais tias lawv nyob rau hauv lub dhau los lawm, lwm yam kev sib raug zoo

Ib txhia neeg (yuav cov neeg uas yuav los ntawm cov theem ntawm nruab nrab-lub neej ntsoog) zoo li nyob xwb vim hais tias zoo saib tus coj txawv txawv kev sib raug zoo. Lawv yeej ib txwm oblique thiab roj ob lub qhov muag muab rau lawv.

Pa txhab: txiv neej, ua txhua txhua hmo ib tug tshiab hluas nkauj - macho, thiab tus hluas nkauj ces glued daim ntawv lo "npaj meej muaj nyob." Nrog rau qhov no nyob rau theem ntawm kev siab phem nyob rau ib feem ntawm lub tuam txhab amazing li cas cov niam txiv tsis ciaj sia. Nco ntsoov tsuas yog ib yam: lus xaiv - nws yog phem rau txhua leej txhua tus.

6. Rau ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug neeg uas yog cov laus

Okay, muaj cov neeg nyob rau hauv lub hnub nyoog sib txawv. Yog li ntawd yog dab tsi? Puas yog nws ib zaug yog ib kauj, yog hais tias tus kev sib raug zoo yog ib tug kev sib nrig sib pom zoo? Ob tug neeg laus tau txiav txim siab hais tias lawv xav siv lub sij hawm ua ke (ib ntus los yog mus tas li), thiab ob ntawm lawv yog cov uas laus txaus yuav tsum tau suav. Ntxiv mus, raws li hais cov sib txawv leej twg tab sis lawv tus kheej? Cov kev sib raug zoo thiab tsev neeg cov qauv yog amazing, nyob rau hauv ib tug phem kev txiav txim zoo ntawm cov lo lus. Lub tsuas xwm zoo yog tias paub tab paub xav tus neeg yuav tsis xav seb judging lwm tus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug tsis yog vim li cas.

7. Rau qhov tseeb hais tias ib txoj hauj lwm tseem ceeb tshoob

Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, lo lus "chav" sawv nyob rau hauv ib tug associative tooj nyob ze lo lus "sib yuav." Thiab qhov no yog lub hauv paus foom phem rau sib. Peb tau mus txog tus taw tes hais tias khub niam txiv tau mus mloog reproaches rau dab tsi ua hauj lwm tseem ceeb tshaj lub tshoob. Rau ib txhia yog vim li cas cov neeg xav hais tias lub zoo meej ob peb - ib tug uas tas nyob ntawm seb txhua lwm yam, txawm yog hais tias nws yog nyob saum. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, qhov kev muaj tiag yog qhov opposite: muab txhua lwm yam chaw tseem ceeb heev, thiab ntse muab kev thiab koj tus kheej lub neej - nws lub suab thiaj li zoo npaum li cas tshaj tej cab hom phiaj. Lub Symptoms yuav tsis ua ib tug ob peb happier, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias lawv ob qho tib si tsis xav ob leeg, thiab thiaj li zoo siab.

8. Rau lub fact tias lawv muaj cov phooj ywg ntawm qhov opposite pw ua niam txiv

Saib xyuas, ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb! Txiv neej cov phooj ywg thiab cov txiv leej tub uas yog tus hluas nraug - ib tug txawv tswvyim. Cuaj kaum, muaj yog ib tug raug qeb ntawm cov neeg uas mus txuas ntxiv rau equate lawv mus rau txhua lwm yam. Tab sis raws li lawv hais tias, yog hais tias muaj yog tsis muaj poj niam ua phooj ywg, thiab cov phooj ywg ntawm ib tug ntxhais thiab ib tug txiv leej tub, dhau lawm, tsis muaj nyob, ua phooj ywg nrog leej twg los ntawm cov poj niam? Heev lus teb yooj yim: nrog cov neeg Chemi lawv xav yuav cov phooj ywg, tsis hais ntawm lawv cov nrog txiv neej pw.

Friendship - nws yog ib tug txawv hom ntawm kev sib raug zoo, tsis hais qhov tseeb hais tias cov neeg - tsis tsiaj thiab muaj ib tug mus tas khub, tsis txhob saib tag nrho cov opposite pw ua niam txiv raws li ib tug tej zaum tus txiv / tus poj niam. Thiab yog hais tias koj rau txim rau cov ob peb rau dab tsi txhua ntawm lawv yog cov phooj ywg nrog ib tug neeg ntawm qhov opposite pw ua ke, tsis seb koj puas xav hais tias koj tsis muaj peev xwm tswj tau lawv tus kheej thiab pom ib tug neeg ntawm qhov opposite pw ua niam txiv raws li ib tug neeg, tsis yog raws li ib tug kev sib deev kwv? Vim hais tias nws yuav ua tau heev zoo ntawm koj mus rau cia neeg mus rau npe rau ib co ntawm nws lub neej "tus kheej".

9. Rau qhov tseeb hais tias lawv yuav qhib rau kev sib raug zoo los ntawm kev tes hauj lwm

Koj tsis xav kom muaj ib tug kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv kev tes hauj lwm? Rau yav tom ntej, tsis muaj. Tab sis qhov no txhais hais tias lwm tus neeg yuav tsum yog li ntawd tsis muaj lawv ib yam nkaus thiab? Yog hais tias lawv yog txaus siab - qhov no yog zoo rau cov niam txiv. Thiab rau lub ntiaj teb no, uas mus nrog rau cov "Facebook" thiab Zuckerberg rau pem hauv ntej, ib yam nkaus thiab.

Znakostva los ntawm kev tes hauj lwm los yog nyob deb kev sib raug zoo rau leejtwg haum, thiab ib txhia ua tsis, tab sis nws yog twb nyob rau hauv peb lub ntiaj teb, thiab yog li ntawd yuav raug txim yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav. Nco ntsoov lub qub txhab: tsis txiav txim rau, nej yuav raug txiav txim. Heev zoo tswv yim.

Uas cov saum toj no neeg pab leg ntaubntawv ntsib koj tus kheej? Los sis tej zaum koj muaj ib yam dab tsi ntxiv rau hauv daim ntawv teev? Nws twb tsis yog koj tus kheej tej kev txhaum hais lus rau ib tug neeg neeg pab leg ntaubntawv? Xa peb koj cov dab neeg thiab cov kev xav nyob rau hauv cov lus!