Kev cai ntse courtesy: yuav ua li cas teb cov lus nug "Koj yog leej twg?"

Tsis muaj teeb meem li cas annoying lub tactlessness ntawm tej yam tib neeg, yuav tau tshem ntawm lawv yog tsis yooj yim. Thiab tus nres tshwm sim los ntawm ib tug tsis muaj kev kawm ntawv, muaj ib tug kev lom zem ntau npaj txhij txog. Ntawm no yog yuav ua li cas teb cov lus nug "Koj yog leej twg?"? Ib tug qub neeg yuav tau tsis meej pem. Qhov no yog zoo kawg nkaus li qub. Tsis dig muag thiab nug. Muaj ntau yam txoj kev tso tawm ntawm no seeb teeb meem. Lawv yog cov txheej txheem thiab, nyob rau hauv tus, advantageously. Cia saib lawv.

tsom xam ntawm qhov teeb meem no

Tus thawj tshaj plaws ua yog mloog koj cov kev xav. Qhov ntawd yog txoj cai! Ces koj yuav tau xam seb yuav teb cov lus nug. "Koj yog leej twg?" - kab lus no yog kom meej meej qhia aggression. Li no, cov tshuaj tiv thaiv yog yuav defensive. Leej twg to taub tias nyob rau theem ntawm txoj kev xav. Hais tias yog, tus subconscious tam sim ntawd thim ib daim duab uas, yog tias mloog mus rau nws, ua rau nws luaj li cas yuav tsum tau ua. Muaj sib txawv heev teeb meem. Qhov ntawd yog cov lus nug nws tus kheej yog tsis vim ua lwj ua liam es ib tug tsis muaj tact. Nyob rau hauv lub kawg, rhiab heev - ib tug zoo uas yog coj los ntawm thaum yau. Tsis yog txhua tus muaj peev xwm to taub yuav ua li cas tsis paub cai tej zaum kuj yog: "Koj yog leej twg?" Yuav ua li cas teb nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no? Qhov yooj yim xaiv - ib tug dag. Qhov no yog ib tug universal txoj kev. Muaj ntau ntawm lo lus nug no cia li txiav teb: "Tus nees lub tsho tiv no" Rudeness? Feem ntau cov yuav, yog. Yog li ntawd, questioner nws tus kheej khiav! Nyob rau hauv soj ntsuam nrog neeg yog tsis ntshaw kom cia siab rau instincts. Koj yuav tau txais ib tug tawg ntawm aggression nyob rau hauv cov lus teb.

Analysis ntawm tus neeg inquirer

Ua ntej koj yuav qhib koj lub qhov ncauj rau kev sib txuas lus, pom, thiab leej twg, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, hais rau koj. Cov tib muaj hnub nyoog, los yog cov neeg laus? Acquaintance los yog ib tug ua kom tiav cov Hmoob? Uas yog flashed rau hauv nws ob lub qhov muag? To taub yuav ua li cas teb cov lus nug "Koj yog leej twg?", Heev yooj yim. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yuav tsum muab raws li ib tug npau taws tawm tsam, thiab nyob rau hauv qhov kev tshwm sim. Tej zaum koj ntawd poob mus rau hauv lub zej zog "daim card" zoo li-minded neeg thiab koj yuav tsum tau "lo lus zais"? Tsis txhob hais dab tsi ib tug ob peb lub vib nas this. Tej zaum, nyob rau hauv ib qhov teeb meem nyob qhov twg to taub ib yam dab tsi yog tsis tau, ib tug mas - qhov zoo tshaj plaws riam phom nrhiav. Koj counterpart nws yuav meej lub "theem" ntawm nws tus kheej kev ntshaw. Uas yog, nyob rau hauv koj lub silence yuav tsum tau ua raws los ntawm ib tug piav qhia hais tias nws yog xa mus rau qhov chaw. Tom qab ntawd peb yuav hais kom meej koj cov lus teb, tsis txhob ntshai raug daig.

ncaj ua lwj ua liam

Tag nrho cov saum toj no tswv yim siv rau zoo txhua lub sijhawm. Txawm li cas los, nws tshwm sim thaum koj yuav tau xav txog yuav ua li cas teb cov lus nug "Koj yog leej twg?" Thaum ntsib ib cad. Ntawm no nws yog pom zoo kom simplicity thiab qhib siab dawb paug. Hais tias yog, tus aggression yog tsis tsim nyog los teb symmetrically, raws li nws yog tam sim no txoj kev cai uas hais tias. Yog hais tias ib tug phem xav kom koj hu rau koj nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem, ces luag ntxhi thiab hais tias, "txiv neej!" Thiab ces - nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no. Yog hais tias koj muaj peev xwm sib piv cov nqi nyob rau hauv teb mus rau lub zog ntawm tus plig, lub nqaij npua yuav tsis lo rau. Psychologists nyob rau hauv ib lub suab hais tias txoj kev phem, lim hiam tsis txawv ua siab loj. Thiaj li, ib tug tib neeg txoj kev rau cov nyem ntawm lawv aggression - yog ib tug ua qauv qhia kev cog qoob loo. Ib tug luag tsuas accentuate koj lub dag lub zog thiab kev ywj pheej.

Raws li ib tug thawj lo lus teb rau lo lus nug "Koj yog leej twg?"

Tam sim no xav txog lwm cov neeg mob. Qhov tseeb hais tias nyob rau hauv tej yam voj voog, lo lus nug no tsis yog phem tus cwj pwm zoo. Es - ib txoj kev kawm, tsim kev sib raug. Muaj yuav tau ua kom pom nws originality thiab cwm pwm. Uas yog hais tias, ua ib tug irresistible tswv yim los ntawm tus thawj thib ob. Yog, tab sis yuav ua li cas ua kom tiav no? Tsis yog txhua txhua tiv nrog xws li ib tug complex teeb meem. Yog li ntawd, cia saib qhov teeb meem no. Sib cav txog yuav ua li cas txias lo lus teb rau cov nqe lus nug "Koj yog leej twg?", Thawj ntawm tag nrho cov xav txog lub scale ntawm qhov tseem ceeb ntawm lub tuam txhab, uas yog tam sim no. Ib txhia neeg yuav tau saj ib tug tag nrho daim duab, zoo li, Ivanov Vasiliy Petrovich, Hmoob tus kws kho mob ntawm sciences. Txwv tsis pub dearer txias Darth Vader, Verbier Space Rog. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, koj yuav tsum to taub dab tsi txog cov neeg uas koj coj destiny. Tsis tas thov txhua leej txhua tus. Tej zaum nws yog ib qho zoo ua kom pom kev ywj pheej. Cia li ua nws nrog kev lom zem, tsis muaj lim.

tseem ceeb heev rau lub sijhawm

Rau cov neeg pom zoo kom muaj xws li cov neeg mob qhov twg rau lo lus nug no yog tawm ntawm lub qhov ncauj ntawm cov tub ceev xwm los yog lwm yam kev cai cem pej xeem. Cov tub ntxhais hluas lub ntsej muag xws li ib tug teeb meem. Kuv yuav hais tias, yog tias koj ua hauj lwm yog tseem tsis tau paub tias nws rau nws? Yog li ntawd, ntawm no nws yog pom zoo kom siv cov cai uas tsis yog-sab teeb lom zem, ua ke nrog rau cov tact. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav khib vim hais tias ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias koj tseem tsis tau cim. Plaug: lub npe, lub xeem, txoj hauj lwm. Qhov no cov ntaub ntawv tsis cuam tshuam ntxiv tus cuav xwm. Piv txwv li: "Kuv - Ivanov Vasya, ib tus thawj rau ris." Yuav ua li cas ntxiv mus rau lub npe, koj saib koj tus kheej, Yog hais tias koj cia koj lub qhov muag qhib. Nyob rau hauv tej pab pawg nws muaj nws ib co kab lig thiab lus dab neeg. Laus-timers nrog Library cov "secrets" raug muab faib. Faj seeb, xav tias lawv tus kheej ya nyob rau hauv koj pub dawb los ntawm ruaj hlwb yaam puab paub! Cia li tsis nco qab txog tias luag - qhov zoo tshaj plaws ua tsov rog nyob rau hauv tej teeb meem no. A kuas kev txiav txim zoo ntawm kev lom zem - lub ntsiab adviser. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj ua rau teb: "Koj tus npau suav, ya nyob rau hauv lub tis ntawm kev zoo siab" - ces zaintriguete neeg yuav hu mus rau nws tus zoo txaus siab.