Crisis 1 xyoo ntawm tus me nyuam - Thawj thawj hnub nyoog ntsoog

Ntau ntev los no, tus me nyuam twb dag qw bobblehead, thiab tam sim no nws yog ib tug txhoj puab me nyuam khiav ib ncig, uas tag nrho yuav tsum kov thiab saj. Tab sis nws coj xwb ib lub xyoo. Ntau cov niam txiv pom hais tias qhov no yog lub hnub nyoog ntawm lawv tus me nyuam yuav tsuas unmanageable, capricious thiab raug despot uas txib pog thiab yawg, niam thiab txiv tej zaum. Thaum txhua leej txhua tus pib mus xav hais tias lawv puas tus me nyuam, nws yog tus thawj manifestation ntawm nws nyuaj cim, uas yuav tsum nrog nws ib txwm. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, txhua yam yog tsis yog li ntawd phem, thiab tag nrho cov no yuav muab qhov chaw tsis muaj kev tsim txom cov menyuam thiab lub txim. Qhov no sai hloov nyob rau hauv tus cwj pwm ntawm tus txiv neej yog li ntawd hu ua - Crisis 1 xyoo nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam. Lub fact tias nws yog ib tug yooj yim xyoo, cov me nyuam yaus tau tuaj ib tug ntev txoj kev los ntawm grudnichka rau erectus, ntau kuv pom kawm. Twb, nws yog me me, tab sis tsim tus neeg ntawm koj mus ob peb vas thiab gastronomic predilections. Qhov no flurry ntawm kev ua si muaj ib tug muaj zog loj hlob siab rau lub tsis paub qab hau psyche. Tej zaum tus me nyuam tsis xav kom ua li cas, dab tsi nws puas zoo li cas, tab sis txwv tsis pub nws tsis paub yuav ua li cas qhia lawv cov kev xav thiab cwj pwm txawv. Yuav muab qhov chaw cia li ib tug me ntsis ntau tshaj li rau lub hlis, thiab tus me nyuam yuav kawm kom paub daws nrog lawv, cov ua cim yuav hloov mus rau qhov zoo. Nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm ntawm 9 lub hlis thiab mus txog rau ib tug thiab ib tug ib nrab xyoo tej zaum yuav pib ib lub xyoo ntawm kev kub ntxhov. Muaj hnub nyoog crises nco txog hnub txhua lub tshiab rau theem nyob rau hauv lub hlwb txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam thiab ua ywj siab cov me nyuam. 1 xyoo, 3, 7, 12-14 - lub ntsiab yooj ntsoog frontiers, los ntawm kev uas txhua tus me nyuam. Qhov kawg lub sij hawm, hu ua tiav nkauj tiav nraug, feem ntau check thiab yooj yim los mus kov yeej, tab sis tsis txhob nws yuav tsis ua hauj lwm yog cov me nyuam los yog lawv niam lawv txiv.

Yuav ua li cas to taub hais tias pib

Crisis 1 xyoo tus me nyuam yog ib qho yooj yim heev rau kev tshawb nrhiav, muaj ib tug xov tooj ntawm defining yam ntxwv:

• uncontrollability, kev cov nyom nyob rau hauv nqa tawm kev kawm ua hauj lwm, stubbornness, sim ua raws li nws yog tsim nyog rau nws, thov mloog thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, lub abandonment ntawm kev pab thiab cuddle;

• tam sim ntawd cov lus teb rau tej txiav npluav raug mob, quaj, kua muag, txhoj puab heev coj tus cwj pwm;
• whims tsis ua;
• contradictions nyob rau hauv tus cwj pwm: tsuas kas ib yam dab tsi xav hnov, raws li twb tau pov tawm ntawm lub uselessness, kuv thov kev pab ua ntaub ntawv thov, thiab ces tsis kam pab, kam ua nws tus kheej.

Kev cob qha cov tswv yim

Crisis ib xyoo psychology hu li qub thiab muab tseeb piav qhia. Tom qab ib xyoos ntawm active tus me nyuam pib mus taug kev thiab khiav, nws zoo nkaus li txaus siab nyob rau hauv txoj kev tshawb ntawm tag nrho cov uas yog nyob rau hauv nws txoj kev. Nws yog ces hais tias nws yog kev nyuaj siab nrog ib tug loj ntawm bans misunderstood rau nws tsis tau mus rau hauv txee, tsis txhob kov cov tshuaj, tshuaj pleev ib ce, cov cuab yeej, nyob ntawm tej, tsis qhib, tsis rub. Feem ntau cov tsis ntev los no, tus me nyuam pom raws li cov niam txiv tag nrho cov tau ua thiab tau tuav, thiab rau ib txhia yog vim li cas nws tsis tau. Psychologists pom zoo rau muab tso rau raws li me ntsis li sai tau txwv, sib tham txog nws nrog rau tag nrho cov nyob ze cov txheeb ze uas tsis tshwm sim, uas tso cai rau niam thiab txiv ua tsis tau. Muab koj tus me nyuam lub sij hawm mus rau nce nyob rau sab rhawv ntawm xwm thiab txee, rub tawm thiab muab tso rov qab cov khoom dag muaj, tshem uas yus ua ntej ntawm lub tshav pob ntawm lub zeem muag ntawm tus hluas soj ntsuam.

Ntshai losing niam

Child Crisis thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej yog tsis muaj teeb meem xws li nram qab no hais txog nws niam. Kid nrog nws qhov txhia chaw, raws li yog hais tias nyob pem hauv ntej ntawm nws kaw lub qhov rooj chav thiab qhov mus tso quav tso chav tsev, nws yuav ua tau ntev heev thiab quaj. Tab sis qhov no yuav zam tau yog tias ib tug me ntsis capricious koom nyob rau hauv ib tug kev ua si, piv txwv li, mus sau cov kob wrappers tias Niam ruam nyob rau hauv lub qhov rooj. Koj yuav hu nkauj ib zaj nkauj, suab paj nruag nastukivat, npuag tes - tag nrho cov no yuav tsum tau pov thawj ntawm tus me nyuam uas leej niam sab. Yog hais tias ib tug poj niam yuav mus kev deb los yog tso rau ib sab rau koj tus kheej tej lub sij hawm, koj thawj yuav tsum tau siv tsawg kawg yog ib nrab ib teev nyob rau hauv nyob sib ze nrog tus me nyuam. Tom qab ntawd nws sated ob leeg yam taw tes uas, nws xav kom txoj kev ywj pheej thiab ywj siab ua si.

Stubbornness thiab ib tug teebmeem nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam 1 xyoo

Ib xyoos tus me nyuam yog feem ntau tawv ncauj, tsis kam mus taug kev, noj, pw tsaug zog, hnav khaub ncaws. Nws tsis tu muab mus rau txhua yam, tseem ceeb tshaj, uas nyob rau hauv no txoj kev, li no mas, nws tau qhia nws kev ywj pheej. Qhia yuav ua li cas ua nws txoj cai, los pab cov txheeb ze los yog koj nyiam cov khoom ua si: ib tug menyuam roj hmab, Muab tso rau hauv ib lub lauj kaub, noj cov Xyooj porridge, ntxuav luav txaus nyiam lub ntsej muag. Tus me nyuam yuav xav kom rov ua nws. Tsis tsim nyog npaum li cas rau hais tias tus me nyuam yog tsis tshaib plab los yog tej txaj chaw. Cia yuav li cas, nws xav li cas, thiab nyob rau hauv ib nrab ib teev, tej zaum kev tshaib plab thiab nws yuav hu nws niam nyob rau hauv lub chav ua noj.

Kuv kuv tus kheej!

Nws pib los mus qhia ntev li ywj siab, tab sis nws niam thiab txiv tsis txaus siab, ntseeg hais tias lawv tus me nyuam yog ib yam nkaus thiab cov tub ntxhais ua ib yam dab tsi rau nws tus kheej. Qhov no yog ib qho ntawm lub ntsiab teeb meem uas nrog lub ntsoog ntawm ib xyoos. Psychologists kom tsis txhob npaj siab tus me nyuam hnav ib lub kaus mom, unbutton nws lub tsho poj niam, so plua plav lossis noj nrog ib diav. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, kuv niam tag nrho tshwm sim sai sai thiab meej, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis txhob stifle me nyuam tus teg num, txwv tsis pub nws yuav tau siv los hais tias txhua yam yog ua li cas rau nws, thiab ces tau nws mus tau tawm nyob rau hauv koj chav tsev yuav tsum heev problematic.

Lub tyranny ntawm siab los yog

Muaj 2 cov qauv ntawm cov ua niam ua txiv ntawm ib tug lub sij hawm thaum lub ntsoog pib ib lub xyoos. Tus thawj muaj hnub nyoog ntawm tus me nyuam muaj kev ntxhov compounded los ntawm lub cev tsis muaj cov me nyuam qhia lawv tsis txaus siab thiab xav tau. Tej zaum ib tug me ntsis rowdy cia li nkaum kiag qhov chaw tus laus tes los ntiv tes pokes nyob rau hauv ib tug tsis paub kev taw qhia. Lawv shrug thiab tsis them sai sai, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau tus me nyuam. Raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm niam txiv tsis saib xyuas ntawm tus me nyuam provokes taws. Ib txhia niam thiab dads ntseeg tau hais tias peb yuav tsum tsis txhob muab tus me nyuam txoj kev ywj pheej, kev quab yuam kom, txwv tsis pub thiab hais rau. Tom qab tag nrho, lawv yog sim nws cov kev pab thiab kev ruaj ntseg. Nyob rau hauv ib feem lawv hais yog lawm, tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab tias cov me nyuam - qhov no yog ib tug neeg uas tej zaum yuav xav mus saib ib tug tas luav txog Luntik thiab tsis Cheburashka, zoo li apples, es zaub qhwv, xav tias resentment, kev ntshai, ntxhov siab, kev xyiv fab, qaug zog. Yog hais tias lub hauv paus ntawm tag nrho cov me nyuam txoj kev npaj siab rau suppress lub ywj pheej thiab qhia lawv xav tau thiab xav tau kev pab, nws yog ib tug uas yuav ntawm tsis muaj teg num loj hlob rau daim kab xev uas siv los hais tias rau nws kom tag nrho cov kev txiav txim siab. Heev yooj yim yuav tso cai rau tus me nyuam ua dab tsi nws nyiam, tab sis nyob rau hauv kev ruaj ntseg hom rau nws. Nws xav mus ua si nrog cov yeeb yuj tshuaj, cia nws ua si, tab sis koj muaj peev xwm hloov lawv nrog kob loj nyees khawm. Hlub tsis tau tsuas yog tshuaj xyuas cov phau ntawv thiab cov phau ntawv Magazine nrog duab tab sis rhuav nyias ntawv no, koj yuav tsum tau hloov lawv nrog cov me nyuam cov phau ntawv nrog duab los qhia los xij. Tej txiav npluav los yog kev txiav txim rau lub nrauv tiav, koj muaj peev xwm tuav lub kev lom zem, creatively kev kawm thiaj li hais tias cov me nyuam yuav ua tau tag nrho cov nws tus kheej tsis pom.

Crisis 1 xyoo ntawm lub neej - nws tsis yog ib tug kab mob, li ntawd, yog tsis muaj yog vim li cas xav tias thov txim rau tus me nyuam tsis tu ncua thiab cia nws tag nrho kom indulge, xav hais tias nws yog tam sim no phem thiab tsis yooj yim. Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej nws yuav muaj peev xwm siv lawv tus kheej mus ob peb vas swings raws li ib tug txoj kev uas yuav muab lawv niam lawv txiv.

Yuav ua li cas kom ciaj sia lub ntsoog

Crisis 1 xyoo tus me nyuam kis tau: cov ntxhais - mus 1.5 xyoo, cov tub hluas - mus rau 2, tab sis ib co ntawm nws yuav tuaj tus me nyuam, nyob ntawm cov niam txiv. Koj yuav tsum sim los kho tus me nyuam raws li ib tug neeg laus txiv neej, mloog, ua kom to taub nws mus ob peb vas thiab kev ntshaw. Tsis txhob yuam nws mus rau ua ib yam dab tsi tawm tsam nws yuav, ntawm chav kawm, yog hais tias peb yuav tsis tham txog kev noj ib qho tseem ceeb cov tshuaj los yog muab rau lub plab hlaub thiab cov kaus mom nyob rau hauv lub txias. Tab sis tsis txhob pub tus me nyuam kua zaub, yog hais tias nws xav kom cereal, yuam kom ua si nrog cov blocks thiab lub tsheb nyob rau hauv koj cov cai. Yog hais tias kom npaj txoj kev kawm ntawv thiab kev sib txuas lus nyob rau hauv lub ntsoog ntawm tus me nyuam thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej, koj yuav pab tau nws tsis tsuas mus tau yooj yim kov yeej tag nrho cov teeb meem ntawm lub tsim ntawm nws tus cwj pwm, tab sis kuj yuav kis tau tshiab kev txawj ntse thiab kev txawj ntse.