Yuav ua li cas mus tham nrog ib tug phooj ywg: yog nws tau los rau hauv lub interrupted poj niam phooj ywg

Ib yam dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug phooj ywg? Nws yuav zoo li uas nag hmo nruab nrab ntawm koj twb tsis muaj secrets, koj muaj peev xwm qhia rau txhua lub lwm yam txhua yam, thiab tam sim no koj tau ua sharply neeg rau txhua lwm yam. Kuv los qub phooj ywg, thiab txawm seb puas yuav ua li cas?

Yog vim li cas kev phooj ywg txawm tu lawm

Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, yog hais tias muaj tsis muaj tsausmuag teeb meem zoo li ua tsov ua rog rau lub plawv ntawm ib tug txiv neej los yog ib tug ruam sib cav sib ceg, tom qab uas cov kev sib txuas lawm, kev phooj ywg tsis mus rau lub hnub, lub lim tiam los yog hli. Qhov no yuav pib maj mam thiab muaj peev xwm kav rau ob peb lub hlis, cia li muaj ib hnub txhua yam los ua tseeb nws tus kheej. Yog hais tias koj yog feem ntau tense ntawm qhov xav txog dab tsi koj yuav tham nrog ib tug phooj ywg, feem ntau yuav, nws yog ib lub pib rau thaum xaus. Qhov no tshwm sim txhawb mus rau ob peb yog vim li cas:

• Differing kev txaus siab. Qhov no yog dab tsi tshwm sim ib zaug koj tau kawm ua ke, sib koom teeb meem, ces txhua tus ntawm koj xaiv lub neej yav tom ntej lub neej. Tej zaum nws twb sib yuav, muaj cov me nyuam? thiab sib tham tig ib ncig muaj teeb meem nrog nws tus txiv thiab siab phem nyob rau hauv-txoj cai, leej twg yuav haum thiab lwj lub tsev neeg idyll. Tsis txhob liam koj tus kheej rau nws yog dab tsi koj yeej interesting, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias koj tsis tau sib yuav.
• Koj nyob nraum cia li nkees. Nws thiaj li tshwm sim hais tias lub zoo tshaj plaws cov phooj ywg pib ua phem rau cov ntseeg. Koj tsis muaj sij hawm rau koj tus kheej lub neej vim hais tias koj nyob rau hauv lwm tus neeg tej teeb meem, uas yog feem ntau tsis solved, tab sis mus txhua txhua hnub. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, koj yuav cia li so kom txaus los ntawm txhua lwm yam rau tej lub sij hawm.
• Ib tug ntawm koj tau muab ntau tshaj li qhov nws tau txais nyob rau hauv rov qab. Ib tug zoo xws li cov cai siv rau cov phooj ywg, thiab tsis yog ib tug khub nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws phooj ywg hangs nyob rau hauv koj cov teeb meem, koj ua ib tug tus kheej tsho khuam thiab koj cov teeb meem muaj los daws kom tau lawv tus kheej. Noj ib tug saib, yog hais tias koj xav tau ib tug phooj ywg? Ib yam dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug phooj ywg?
• Emotional incompatibility. Nrog tus hluas nkauj ua heev yooj yim yuav nyob ib ncig, nws yog ib tug yuav luag lub cev kev txiav txim zoo ntawm ceg. Nws shakes koj los ntawm yuav ua li cas nws hais rau koj los yog koj tus txiv, phooj ywg, tej zaum nws pib mus poob sib nrug rau tsis muaj dab tsi thiab mus rau hauv hysterics, thiab koj pom tau tias nws nyuaj rau peb ib ncig.

Yuav ua li cas rau reconcile nrog tus hluas nkauj

Tej lub sij hawm dhau, thiab lub sib cav sib ceg tau tsis nco qab lawm. Tab sis yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau ib kauj ruam ntawm reconciliation? Qhov zoo tshaj plaws - tsis txhob khawb li qhov ua txhaum, thiab los ua txuj tias tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim. Post nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo network, ib tug yooj yim SMS rau tus xov tooj tos txais yuav ib tug zoo xaiv. Ua ntej mus rau ib tug tus kheej lub rooj sib tham, xav hais tias hais txog dab tsi los tham nrog ex-hluas nkauj rov qab mus rau qhov chaw.

Lwm cov kev xaiv - "xws li" hu. Tuaj mus nrog ib tug zoo yog vim li cas: piv txwv li, nug nws muab rau koj ib daim ntawv qhia rau ib tug nyias, uas twb npaj nyob rau ntawm qhov kawg gatherings thiab yog li ntawd qab uas koj tau txiav txim siab los kho lawv mus rau nws tus hlub.

Yog hais tias koj paub hais tias ib tug phooj ywg yuav tsum nyob rau hauv tsev, npaj ib me ntsis nyob rau hauv ua ntej, hu rau, qhia rau, uas yog tsis deb ntawm nws lub tsev thiab yuav mus nrog ib tug khoom qab zib, ib khob dej tshuaj yej. Qhia peb seb koj twb tau txais ib yam dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug phooj ywg qhia cov xov xwm.

Yuav ua li cas mus pib sib tham

Tus hu yog ib tug kawm tau zoo, thiab koj thaum kawg tau ntsib txhua lwm yam. Nyob rau uas lub ntsiab lus mus tham nrog ib tug phooj ywg nyob rau hauv thawj qhov chaw, mus rau ib qho txawv txawv lawm ploj? Ob peb xaiv rau qhov kev sib tham, uas yuav pab tau nyob rau hauv no hais txog:

• pov npav tus hluas nkauj duab: hnav ris tsho, khau, ua-up los yog lwm yam;
• nug txog nws cov kev vam meej los yog yuav ua li cas kom loj hlob nws tus me nyuam;
• nco qab dab tsi txog cov dab ntawd zoo nyob rau hauv koj kev phooj ywg;
• nco ntsoov ntau nti, uas ib txwm muaj kev lom zem.

Mloog cov phooj ywg, thiab ces npaj mus rau lub pre-tsim ntsiab, vim uas koj tau caw nws mus rau ib tug lub rooj sib tham. Tej zaum, nrog rau cov thawj lub rooj sib tham ntawm ib tug phooj ywg thiab tsis rov qab nws qhov chaw nyob, tab sis cov dej khov yog txav mus li.

Yam dab tsi yuav tsum tau zam

Yog hais tias qhov kev sib tham mus tau zoo thiab koj yeej muaj ib yam dab tsi los tham txog nrog nws tus phooj ywg, tsis tau muaj tej yam uas zoo dua tsis mus kov ntawm thawj lub rooj sib tham tom qab qhov teeb meem thiab sib tham txog lawv yav tom ntej, thiab yog hais tias tau tsis txhob mus rov qab mus rau nws:

• debriefing yav dhau los tej teeb meem: nws yog tsis yog tsim nyog tham txog nws tam sim ntawd, teem sab kom txog thaum tej lub sij hawm raws li tag nrho cov settles, Yog hais tias koj xav tias qhov yuav tsum tau to taub;
• Tsev nws tus hluas nkauj thiab tsis muab txim rau lawv views on yuav ua li cas yuav ua li cas qhov zoo tshaj plaws;
• sim kom tsis txhob sib tham uas muaj teeb meem nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg, qhov tseeb yog paub xwb los koom nyob rau hauv ib tug sib cav sib ceg, thiab nws tsis yog tsim nyog ib zaug dua los delve rau hauv lwm tus neeg khib nyiab;
• Tsis txhob qhia rau nws tus phooj ywg hais txog lub shortcomings ntawm nws xaiv ib tug, nws yog tsis zoo li koj xav tau ib tug zoo xws li cov ntsiab nyob rau hauv nws qhov chaw, txawm yog hais tias koj txoj cai;
• lwm yam ntxhib npoo uas ua rau tsis xis nyob tus hluas nkauj;
• lus xaiv txog kev sib nrig sib phooj ywg thiab acquaintances.

Sawv nrog ib tug huv daim ntawv

Nyob rau hauv thiaj li tsis mus poob nws tus phooj ywg dua, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis txhob rov qab ua yuam kev thaum ub. Tsis txhob saib rau flaws nyob rau hauv nws, cia li ib zaug, nws los ua koj tus hluas nkauj, ces thaum nws tau nyiaj li hais tias txoj cai. Saib rau koj kev phooj ywg tsuas zoo sab. Cia li zoo siab rau koj tus hluas nkauj, txhawb nws kawm tau zoo, tau ib tug tshiab sib koom tes nthuav hobby, uas yuav txuas koj thiab nrhiav tau nthuav sib nrauj ntawm txhua lwm yam, koj yuav yeej ib txwm muaj ib yam dab tsi los tham txog nrog ib tug phooj ywg. Thiab qhia rau tus ob ntawm koj yuav ua tau ib tug piv txwv uas poj niam ua phooj ywg tsis yog nyob ua ib ke, tab sis yuav ua tau ntau npaum li cas muaj zog dua cov txiv neej.