Yuav ua li cas muab ib tug txiv neej nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw lolus

Muaj tseeb koj feem ntau ntsib upstarts thiab kritikanov uas sim poob ntsej muag rau koj thiab vajhuam lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv koj cov nyiaj them. Lawv tawm tsam tej zaum ua rau tsis meej pem: yuav ua li cas rau li cas rau lawv thiab yuav ua li cas los tiv thaiv koj tus kheej? Nyob rau hauv no tsab xov xwm koj yuav kawm dab tsi yuav tau ua thiab yuav ua li cas muab ib tug txiv neej nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw.

Tseeb thiab txiav txim siab zoo

Lub ntsiab riam phom tiv thaiv tus neeg twg uas nws ua rau koj tsis ncaj ncees, nws yog ib qho kev txiav txim zoo thiab qhov tseeb. Yuav hnov thaum koj tus nrog sib ntaus mus tawm tsam lawv. Xyuam xim rau qhov no, koj yuav tsis tau nws ib yam nkaus thiab loj insinuations. Koj txawm yuav ua kev lom zem ntawm lub fact tias nws theem! Yuav ua li cas muab ib tug txiv neej nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug teeb meem no? Cia li muab nws rau koj tus kheej "faus".

provocation

Favorite txoj kev cav ncauj neeg - ib tug provocation: nws tso cai rau lawv muab koj sib cav sib ceg raws li yog hais rau cov nqaij npua - nws yog koj. Tsis txhob muab nyob rau hauv thiab tsis tawg: no ntawm koj thiab tos. On qhov tsis tooj, cov tsis muaj lus teb yog feem ntau frustrating provocateur. Yuav ua li cas muab ib tug txiv neej nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw? Cia nws mus thuam nws lub siab nyiam, tab sis unresponsive.

courtesy

Kev coj zoo - ib tug zoo uas yog tsim nyog nyob rau hauv lub neej txhua hnub nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, thiab nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog. Es tsis tau bogged thiab tsim kom muaj ib tug lub koob npe nrov raws li ib tug uas tsim teebmeem, koj yuav tau coj ib tug pas lawv tus yeeb ncuab ice cov kev coj zoo.

tsis saib xyuas

Xa mus rau lub brawler down, txiaj ntsim, thiab nyob rau hauv no tom qab, qhia rau peb paub dab tsi ib yam dab tsi paub tab paub xav rau qhov kev kawm ntawm cov teeb meem, thiaj li hais tias txhua leej txhua tus yuav xav tias tus zoo.

hlub

Muaj coob tus ntseeg hais tias hlub humiliates txiv neej. Public thiab tu kicker, raws li ib tug tiag tiag tus neeg nyob rau hauv lub neej - ib qhov chaw ntawm ib tug creator, tsis yog ib tug destroyer. Thiab koj tus nrog sib ntaus, neeg txom nyem tshaj plaws, yog tsis heev npaum li cas thiab yuav tau ua kom ib yam dab tsi rau lawv tus kheej thiab vajhuam lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv lub siab dawb paug.

Constructive kev daws teeb meem Nrhiav

Yuav ua li cas muab ib tug txiv neej nyob rau ntawm qhov chaw, yog hais tias nws clings mus rau tej yam kev? Nug seb nws yuav muaj nyob rau hauv rov qab. Constructive kev ua si - kiag li tsis nws lub caij, xws li ib tug xav kom los yog cia li muab tso rau nws nyob rau hauv ib tug tuag thaum xaus los yog ua mus ncuav rau lwm lub thoob ntawm av, tab sis nyob rau nws tus kheej.

Cov kev tiv thaiv ntawm txawv teb chaws kev txaus siab

Yog hais tias koj yuav koom tes nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem, tsis tsuas koj thiab koj tus nrog sib ntaus, tab sis lwm tus neeg, koj yuav tau sawv mus rau kev txaus siab ntawm lwm tus neeg, thiab yuav ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv koj lub haum tib neeg kev sib raug zoo. Koj zoo li siv lub tshuab thiab koj tus nrog sib ntaus tawm tsam tsis tsuas yog nyob rau koj tab sis kuj nyob rau hauv tus so. Yog li ntawd, koj teem cov neeg tuaj saib tawm tsam nws thiab yuav nyiam mus rau lawv sab, thiab nws yuav tsum nyob rau ib tug zoo disadvantage.

repartee

Tsis txhob coj koj tus nrog sib ntaus thiab ntaus nws tiag, kho nws raws li ib tug kev ua si. Yog hais tias koj muaj ib tug zoo kev txiav txim zoo ntawm kev lom zem, koj yuav "txiav" upstart witty hais, uas nws yuav muaj tsis muaj dab tsi los teb, muab nws mus ridicule. Tom qab ntawd, nws tsis yog dares hu rau koj dua.

uas raug nqi ntau

Ib qho ntawm feem ntau yam boards - kiag las mees lub kicker thiab tag nrho nws cov baseless accusations ntxiv mus txog lawv ua lag ua luam raws li yog hais tias nws tsis yog muaj nyob rau ntawm tag nrho cov. Nws yuav tshuab tag nrho cov koj xav tau, kom txog thaum koj tau txais bored!