Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob swearing? Ib tug ob peb kauj ruam rau cov kev cai hais lus

Zoo nkauj thiab kev cai hais lus yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj hom lus qias neeg, muab tso rau nws tsuas - mats. Txawm li cas los, nws thiaj li tshwm sim hais tias nyob rau hauv peb lub teb chaws, lawv yuav tsum tau hnov qhov txhia chaw. Chaw ua hauj lwm, pej xeem kev thauj mus los, lub nroog qhov chaw ua si, lub tsev kawm ntawv vaj, lub tsev kawm ntawv - unprintable lus nyob ib ncig ntawm peb, hnov cia qhov txhia chaw. Txawm li cas los, Yog hais tias koj twb xav li cas kom tsis txhob ua txhaum cai, koj muaj npaum li cas tus thawj, albeit heev me me kauj ruam. Tab sis yog nws tau?

Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, koj yuav tsum mus nrhiav txoj cai txug ua tau li ntawd. Tej zaum nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev nyob cov me nyuam me, thiab koj tsis xav kom lawv foul lus, xyaum koj. Los yog koj tsuas xav kom muaj cov duab ntawm educated, kawm ntawv tus neeg, uas tsis haum cov mats.

Historians thiab linguists ntseeg tau hais tias zoo tag nrho paub hais lus originated los ntawm ancient pagan hnoos li no. Ntxiv mus, cov hnoos li no tsis raws kev coj kom ib yam dab tsi zoo thiab lub teeb, tab sis nyob rau txoj kev puas tsuaj thiab kev puas tsuaj ntawm cov haiv neeg. Lawv siv los coj rau cov teeb meem (nyob rau hauv particular - ntxiv lawm tshob) nyob rau tag nrho coob. Tsis kev huam yuaj uas feem ntau ntawm lawv yog cov nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas muaj feem rau kev sib deev kabmob. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, tam sim no hauj lwm ntawm cov ntaub ntawv lus - nws yog ib yam ntawm cov foom phem.

Txawm li cas los, me ntsis yog to taub hais tias siv hais lus dev - phem. Psychologists qhia hais tias cov neeg uas tab tom nrhiav rau ib tug txoj kev yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob swearing?

Muaj ntau ntau phau ntawv sau cov lus uas yuav ua tau ib qho zoo heev hloov rau cov hom lus qias neeg. Ceeb toom: feem ntau cov mats tawg nrog cov lus thaum peb muaj ib tug surge ntawm tus cwj pwm txawv (feem ntau tsis zoo). Thiab tag nrho vim hais peb yog ib yam nkaus thiab tub nkeeg (los yog peb cov lo lus tsis pub) mus nrhiav ib tug haum hloov txawj ib los yog lwm txoj kev.

Feem ntau peb siv phem cov nqe lus tsis txawm pom. Cia li zoo meej nws yuav yog hais tias nyob rau hauv koj cheeb tsam yuav nrhiav tau ib tug txiv neej npaj los pab koj thiab "kev tswj" qhov ndlwg ntawm cov lo lus uas koj hais. Tus neeg no yuav tsum ntev kom koj sau ntawv thaum twg koj muaj ib zaug dua yuav thim rov qab los ntawm nws cov kev txiav txim siab kom tsis txhob swearing.

Ib txhia neeg tab tom nrhiav rau txoj kev yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob hais hlo li yuav pab tau ib yam dab tsi zoo li "ib tug system ntawm kev nplua." Tej hom kev kawm yuav siv tau nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg thiab cov chaw ua hauj lwm (nyob rau hauv lub thib ob xaiv, koj yuav tsum tau "civilize" rau tag nrho cov pab neeg!). Lub point yog yooj yim. Koj yuav los yog ua rau koj tus kheej ob txhais tes piggy bank thiab muab tus nqi ntawm lub zoo. Nws yuav ua tau tsawg heev - 5, 10 rubles. Txawm li cas los, kom tso lawv vim hais tias ntawm xws li ib tug trifle tsis kam, txoj cai? "Txhaum" yuav tsum thov txim rau tag nrho cov, thiab ces muab tso rau cov nyiaj nyob rau hauv lub piggy bank.

Yog hais tias koj tab tom nrhiav rau txoj kev yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob ua txhaum cai, ua kom to taub tias txhua tus neeg reproduces cov ntaub ntawv yog nyob rau hauv daim ntawv nyob rau hauv uas nws tau txais. Sim nyeem ntau li ntau cov ntawv xov xwm li sai tau, phau ntawv, xov xwm, qhov chaw uas cog lus lus tsis yog siv rau tag nrho cov. Los ntawm txoj kev, lub classical ntaub ntawv, cov lwm yam, pab koj nthuav koj cov lus.

Xav txog yuav ua li cas rau wean cog lus, ib co neeg muab yug rau ib tug tag nrho phau ntawv sau, uas cov ntaub ntawv ntaub ntawv txhua txhua hnub txog yuav ua li cas muaj ntau yam hais lus phem lus twb hais tias los ntawm lawv. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm tag nrho cov, Yog hais tias xws li ib tug phau ntawv sau, ntsiav tshuaj los yog phau yuav tas li nyob rau koj lub siab. Khiav yuav pab koj kom tsis txhob ua txhaum cai, thiab ib tug nruab nrab ntawm cov ntau lawm cwj pwm tsis zoo los tswj nws tus kheej yuav siv sij hawm txog 3 lub lis piam.

Rau ntau, qhov zoo tshaj txoj kev yog rau txim rau. Ntawm no nws txhais lub ntsiab cai reflexes. Piv txwv li, koj yuav muab tso rau tes, zoo li ib tug hlua tes, elastic rau cov nyiaj. Txhua lub sij hawm tawm ntawm koj lub qhov ncauj lov tawm ib qho kev expletive, nws yog tsim nyog los ncua nws thiab cia mus sharply mus pos hniav mob tes. Thaum lub sij hawm, koj lub paj hlwb yuav pib yuav ntshai muab cog lus.

Muaj yog tsis muaj dab tsi nyuab txog yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob cursing tus hluas nkauj los yog txiv leej tub. Tsis txhob nug cov tsis yooj yim sua los ntawm koj tus kheej: thawj accustom lawv tus kheej mus rau lub fact tias cov phem lus yuav tsum tau cov lus hais heev softly, yuav luag inaudibly. Koj muaj peev xwm ces cia rov qab, txiav lawv, thiab hais txog, kom txog rau thaum lawv ploj kiag li ntawm koj hais lus.

Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, sim kho txhua yam nrog ib tug zoo - ces qhov yuav tsum tau rau ib tug "foom" yuav ploj tag nrog lub sij hawm.