Peb muaj tag nrho cov kev nyuaj siab nrog rau lub fact tias nyob rau hauv ib haiv neeg sib txawv ntawm cov neeg uas peb hnov thiab coj heev txawv. Ib tug neeg los ntawm cov thawj lus muab rau peb optimism thiab kev cia siab, ib tug kev sib tham nrog nws theem self-cog qoob loo, kev kaj siab thiab sov so. Thiab ib tug neeg, nyob rau hauv zoo, ua rau koj xav li sai raws li koj tau hais goodbye thiab yeej tsis pom. Yuav ua li cas yog lub povhaum? Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb khoom plig los yog muaj peev xwm? Puas yuav ua tau rau kawm tau li cas rau lub nplhaib neeg?
American psychologists ntseeg tau hais tias txhua yam los nrog xyaum. Tab sis nco ntsoov radiant, tab sis nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, txias luag Americans. Yuav kom ua tau optimistic rau cov neeg mus nkaum lawv cov teeb meem thiab kev paub tsis txhais hais tias yuav nyiam cov neeg. Charisma - yog ib tug magnet. Nrog rau cov txiv neej uas muaj no zoo, kuv xav kom tham dua thiab dua. Yuav ua li cas yog daim card? Lub ntsiab vaj tse, uas yog charisma - yog lub xub ntiag ntawm empathy. Qhov no muaj peev xwm mus "vchuvstvovatsya" mus rau lub interlocutor. Muaj peev xwm tiag tiag empathize nrog nws thiab muab nws to taub nws. Ntxim nyiam - es, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb muaj peev xwm. Tom qab tag nrho, koj muaj peev xwm tsis kawm empathize. Raws li nws yog tsis yooj yim sua rau kawm kom tau zoo-natured. Koj muaj peev xwm yeej kawm tau ntau yam tswv yim muab cov neeg, tswj lawv thiab lawv tus cwj pwm, lub ntsej muag kab zauv, gestures. Tab sis ib tug sib sib zog nqus siab ntawm intimacy nrog ib tug neeg koj tsis tau coj mus tej koj tus kheej los yog lwm tus neeg. Yuav ua li cas attracts peb mus rau lub charming neeg? Tus thawj yog hais tias lawv yog rau peb. Nws pom tau tias zoo li muaj ib tug "daim tawv nqaij". Nws yuav tsis ua si, vim hais tias lub puab prudence yog pom feem ntau nyob rau qib subconscious. Li ntawd, cov povhaum - nws yog saum toj no tag nrho cov siab dawb paug. Tab sis tsis sab, tsis txhoj puab heev. Tus txiv neej uas muaj lub txiaj ntsim mus povhaum lwm tus, paub yuav ua li cas los mloog. Thiab nws yuav tsum ua tib zoo mloog tag nrho cov nuances thiab ntxoov ntawm lub interlocutor qab thiab nkag siab txog qhov teeb meem no heev.
Los ntawm charming neeg tuaj haus dej kom ntau warmth thiab friendliness. Hais tias yog, xws li ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm tsis yuav khav los yog neeg khav theeb. Nws yog feem ntau yog nws tus kheej-kheej. Nws yog attentive, tab sis tsis sab. Hais txog poj niam lub povhaum yog kiag li ywj siab ntawm lub formal "txoj cai" kev zoo nkauj. Peb muaj tag nrho ntsib cov ntxhais thiab tub hluas ntxhais hluas uas tsis tau txais txiaj ntsim los ntawm ib tug zoo meej tsos los yog kev ua si nuj nqis. Tab sis lawv tseem ceeb thaum tshav kub kub ua rau lawv ntau npaum li cas txaus nyiam tshaj li tus khaub thuas zoo nkauj ntawm cov neeg khav theeb poj niam los yog gentlemen glazed elegance.
Yog li, lub povhaum - ib tug zoo ntawm tus cwj pwm, tus ua cim. Qhov no muaj peev xwm mus nce cov neeg tsis thov kev pab rau qhov no dag zog. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, qhov no zoo heev muaj nuj nqis nyob rau hauv tej pab pawg neeg. Xws li ib tug neeg feem ntau twb tsis muaj cov yeeb ncuab. Cia li vim hais tias ntawm nws cov warmth thiab friendliness nws disarms lawv. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib qho tseem ceeb yog qhov zoo tshaj ntawm tag nrho cov hauj lwm hais txog kev sib txuas lus. Charming salesman los yog tus neeg saib xyuas-kws pab tswv yim yuav tsum tau mus rau ntau sai sai thiab lawm yeej lub pab koj tu siab ntawm tus neeg thiab yaum nws mus yuav. Nyob rau hauv lub tsev kho mob thiab tsev kuaj mob rau cov kws kho mob thiab cov neeg tu mob, muaj no zoo, cov neeg mob yuav kho nrog ib tug tshwj xeeb kev xyiv fab. Charismatic xib fwb los yog tus xib fwb yog ib tug nyiam ntawm tag nrho lawv tej me nyuam kawm ntawv. Txawm tias cov cuab yeej no yuav tsis kawm, koj muaj peev xwm sim mus faus xws qualities li empathy, lub peev xwm los empathize thiab sympathize. Vim hais tias tsis muaj teeb meem qhov twg peb twb ua hauj lwm, ua xijpeem, zoo sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg ib txwm coj peb tsuas zoo.