Yuav ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam? Deb ntawm exaggerations thiab kwvyees

Los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm peb yuav ua tau yuam kev, thiab tej zaum peb muaj ib tug heev loj coj tsis ncaj. Thiab ces cov neeg pib mus nkag rau hauv kev tshawb fawb xyaw phem heev cov lus nug "Yuav ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam?". Ntawm cov hoob kawm, tej lus nug yog tsis feem ntau yog teev tus txiv neej uas yog txaus siab rau. Hnov ruam - tsis tus tshaj plaws qab ntxiag lawm thiab peb xav paub yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob no nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej. Txawm li cas los, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas qhov teeb meem muaj ib qho nyiaj paj nyob rau hauv dab tsi koj yuav tau ua nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem.

Ua ntej, muab ib tug muaj zog lub siab lub ntsws kev soj ntsuam ntawm lawv cov stupidity. Nws twb yeej ib txwm exaggerated. Dag - ib tug heev txheeb ze tswvyim. Muaj tseeb tiag, kev txawj ntse untenable tib neeg uas muaj kev xiam oob qhab, thiab lawv yuav tau nkag siab zoo txog tej yam ntawm ib txwm. Yog li ntawd hais tias ruam neeg tsis muaj nyob, muaj yog ntau dua los yog tsawg competent nyob rau hauv ib tug kev qhov teeb meem. Thiab nws yog - yuav kis tau. Nyob rau hauv kev kawm qhov tseeb lub siab lub ntsws lub xeev ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv - tus yuam sij rau kev kawm tau zoo nyob rau hauv kev txhim kho kompententnosti. Yog hais tias koj tsis kam txais lawv cov yuam kev, koj yuav tau yooj yim mus ntxiv. Yog li ntawd tsis txhob txhawj thiab hais tias nyob rau hauv peb lub sij hawm yog ntawm kuj zoo kawg tus nqi. Wb hais tias koj tsis paub ib yam dab tsi thiab cia li ua rau txoj kev xaiv. Nws yog phem. Koj tsis nco qab qhov kev xaiv, feem ntau yuav, thiab koj muaj lub sij hawm mus ua ib tug yuam kev nyob rau hauv ib qhov teeb meem nyob qhov twg ib tug zoo li xaiv yuav tseem ceeb heev. Tiam sis yog tias koj ua yuam kev, nws yeej yuav tau nco ntsoov hais tias hais tias nws yog tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Yog li ntawd txaus siab rau lub cones.

Secondly, koom nyob rau hauv kev tsom xam ntawm qhov teeb meem. Yuav ua li cas yog siv tau nug txog nws tus kheej, "ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam," rau cov neeg uas thaum koj ua ib tug me ntsis ntawm uas depended? Wb hais tias koj tsis to taub qhov teeb meem thiab muaj tas sij hawm mus txais tau kev paub ntawm nws tus tij laug hais rau cov kev pab thiab nws yog nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm txoj kev pab ua yuam kev loj heev. Yuav ua li cas yog tias ib tug tij laug - ib tug neeg ruam? Tsis txhob sau tawm tag nrho koj ntau qub txeeg qub teg nrog nws, uas yog, tsis txhob xav txog koj tus kheej raws li ib tug neeg ruam. Los yog, wb hais tias koj ntsib ib tug hluas nkauj uas tsis tau xav txog tej yam lub neej tsis muaj ib tug kaj showdown. Thiab tsis muaj teeb meem yuav ua li cas zoo rau koj coj - nws yuav zoo rau ib tug zam txim rau mus ua si nyob rau hauv lub ua yeeb yam ntawm ib tug actor. Yog li ntawd nws yog tsim nyog los tsim kom muaj seb qhov teeb meem no yog ib tug ua tsis ua hauj lwm yog koj txiav txim siab. Tej zaum, nyob rau ntawm lub lub sij hawm ntawm qhov kev txiav txim, nws yog txoj cai, tab sis, ces txhua yam hloov lawm. Thiab koj muaj tsis muaj tswj nws. Xws li ib tug teeb meem no yuav tsum tau pom cias li ib tug xeeb txob.

Thirdly, nws yog tsim nyog los ua hauj lwm ib qho nyuaj rau ua kom tag nrho tau cov lus xaus ntawm qhov teeb meem no twb tau. Thiab nws yuav tsum tsis txhob yuav ib tug txiav txim siab uas tej lub sijhawm yuav tsum tau zam nyob rau hauv tus - ib tug mus kom ze swb. Khiav multifaceted views qhov teeb meem no thiab teev ib tug zoo qauv. Tsis txhob xav tau rau expend zog on qhov teeb meem ntawm nws tus kheej, "ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam?", Koj nug koj tus kheej, "ua li cas yog cov ua rau kom raug thiab yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob muaj lawv nyob rau hauv lub tom ntej no?".

Plaub, muab koj tus kheej txoj cai los yuam kev. Cia koj tus kheej mus tsis ncaj ncees lawm, nws nkawd ntxhais Khana-as thiab ua stupidly, yog hais tias nws tsis yog ib tug kev ua si. Yuav ua li cas yog hais tias tus thawj coj - ruam? Yuav kom zam txim rau thiab yuav tau xav txog yuav ua li cas nrog nws. Tom qab tag nrho, peb hu rau ib tug neeg ib tug neeg ruam, thaum peb tsis xav kom xav txog dab tsi nws yog hais tias nws tsis tau. Tsuas hu ib tug neeg ruam, tshaj, piv txwv li, kom paub hais tias nws cia li yuav siv sij hawm phem, thaum nyob rau hauv nws cov kev txiav txim siab mas. Tiam sis yog tias koj tsis muab tshuaj txhuam rau hauv lub shortcut, thiab tsaug xav txog qhov teeb meem, koj yuav tau ib tug yawm sij hawm los daws kom tau nws.

"Yuav ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam" - muab exaggerations thiab kwvyees. Koj yuav tsum mus sim rau txawv sab saib qhov teeb meem - thiab ntau yam yuav hloov. Ua ntej, yuav tsum yeej ib txwm yuav hloov los ntawm dramatization rau kev tsom xam. Nyeem ntxiv txog cov txheej txheem ntawm no ua haujlwm yuav muaj nyob rau hauv Nikolaya Kozlova phau ntawv, ib qho ntawm feem tseem ceeb Lavxias teb sab psychologists.