Yuav ua li cas koj yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav raws li lub siab xav?

Tus txiv neej yog nco ntsoov txog ib yam dab tsi npau suav. Ib txhia kev txwv xav yog mus rau ib tug taug, thaum lwm tus neeg - ntse sau npe kawm los yog kawm tiav los ntawm lub koom haum, ib txhia tshaj ib qho tseem ceeb tshaj yog ib tug zoo sib yuav, muaj ib tug me nyuam, thiab cov me nyuam feem ntau xav kom tsheb tuam los ice cream, ib tug neeg xav kom cia li mus rau lub ua yeeb yam. Npau Suav yog cov sib txawv nyob ntawm seb tus neeg, nyob rau hauv tej yam kev mob ntawm qhov chaw nyob, kev txaus siab thiab xav. Yuav ua li cas muaj coob tus neeg, thiaj li muaj ntau tus neeg tsis pub leejtwg paub los yog tsis xav. Tab sis hais txog ntawm lub qhov ntau ntawm tus npau suav, txhua kev txhawj xeeb nrog rau lo lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav raws li qhov xav kom?"

Muaj ntau ntau rituals rau qhov kev siv ntawm lawv lub neej. Ib tug neeg xav nyob rau hauv kev tsim, xav hais tias yog formulated nyob rau hauv nws lub siab nqe lus xws li "Kuv xav kom saum ntuj ceeb tsheej palace", ces nyob rau hauv thaum sawv ntxov, qhib nws ob lub qhov muag, nws yuav tsum saib nws thiab, Ntxiv, yuav tsum tau nws rightful tswv. Thiab yog hais tias qhov no tsis tshwm sim, nws yuav txaus siab hais tias nws tsis muaj nyob rau ib lub neej. Yog li ntawd, mus rau lub tsis yooj yim sua npau suav hmoov tsis, nws tsis tshwm sim uas obviously unattainable, txwv tsis pub dab tsi yog muaj tiag, nws yuav siv sij hawm ib tug neeg sab nrauv. Qhov no yog thawj lo lus teb rau cov nqe lus nug ntawm yog dab tsi yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav raws li lub siab xav. Tsis txhob guessing uas cas lub tsis yooj yim sua, intangible, unreal. Muaj siab yuav tsum muaj tseeb thiab txhob txwm. Zoo, yog koj txawm teem lub sij hawm lub sij hawm, thaum nws yuav tsum tau ua tiav raws li, tab sis, ces nws tsis yog tsim nyog los zaum thiab tos idly los ntawm hnub, thiab tag nrho cov sij hawm yuav tau xav txog lub hom phiaj thiab ua tiag coj mus rau lub neej. Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom npau suav txog ib yam dab tsi illusory, xws li cov castles nyob rau hauv cov huab cua, uas nyiaj xav tau. Peb lub ntiaj teb no tseem yog cov ntaub ntawv uas lub siab nyiam thiab xav yuav tsum tau tib yam.

Tsis txhob articulate nws npau suav nrog cov prefix "tsis muaj", nws yog tsis zoo zog. Piv txwv li, "Kuv tsis xav ua rau": li ntawd, nws yog tsis yooj yim sua twv. Nws yuav tsum tau: "Kuv xav kom tau noj qab nyob zoo." Puas tu yog formulated lub tswv yim - yog ib nrab ntawm cov sib ntaus sib tua. Qhov thib ob yam uas yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav raws li lub siab xav - nws yog txhais, tsis "daig" yog hais tias nplij nws "tab sis." Piv txwv li, kuv xav tau ib tug lub tsheb, tab sis kuv muaj tsis muaj txoj cai, kuv xav mus hnav ris tsho, tab sis cov duab tsis pub. Yog hais tias koj xav tes nrog cov prefix "tab sis", uas yog tseem tsis zoo zog yog pib los ntawm thaum pib nrog rau qhov no sib ntaus, mus rau tsav tsheb tsev kawm ntawv, poob phaus, etc.

Nyob rau hauv tsis zoo zog peb xam tawm, tsiv mus rau qhov zoo yam uas pab, koj yuav tsum tau ua kom tiav raws li lub siab xav. Nws yog tsim nyog tias hauv tus npau suav tuaj ntawm lub plawv. Txhua yam uas tshwm sim rau peb, nyob rau peb. Yog hais tias koj xav tau ib yam dab tsi tawm ntawm kev khib, kev ntshaw los yog self-interest, nws tsis yog lub zoo tshaj lawm xav ib yam dab tsi. Koj ua tau, thiab tau txais cov khoom uas nws lub siab nyiam, tiam sis nws yuav pab tau koj ntev thiab yuav muaj kev xyiv fab yog hais tias tsis tau paub. Tag nrho peb cov kev xav materialize. Muaj koj xav li cas txog ib yam dab tsi, thiab nws mam li nco dheev tshwm sim ua ntej koj ob lub qhov muag. Ib tug neeg hu qhov teeb meem, nyob qhov twg lub "mus" tag nrho cov kev xav ntawm tib neeg, ib kev txawj ntse qhov chaw, ib tug neeg - Vajtswv, ib tug neeg - lub cosmic lub siab, ib yam yog muaj tseeb, hais tias yog koj tswj kom muab tso ua ke peb rog: yuav, cov kev txiav txim ntawm kev muaj tiag ntawm lub siab xav thiab kev nkag siab tias koj xav tias, peb paub hais tias hauv tus npau suav twb yog koj li, ces nws yuav tsum tau ua tiav raws li. Qhov no zoo zog yuav muaj tseeb muab sau tseg nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm saum ntuj ceeb tsheej. Thiab nws yuav los ua ib tug kev muaj tiag. Yog cov lus hais tias: tsis muaj mob nyob rau hauv dreaming, dreaming tsis yog phem. Piv txwv hais tias cov nyiaj pab xav! Yuav zoo siab, tsis txhob hnov qab tias nws tag nrho cov nyob rau koj.