Lub neej yog tsis ib txwm muaj raws li peb paub nws. Zoo meej cozy tsev, cov niam tsev txiv, feemxyuam cov me nyuam, ib tug zoo ua hauj lwm - yog feem ntau tag nrho nws tsuas yog ib daim duab ntawm ib tug glossy magazine. Tab sis li cas yog tias koj pib los ntawm thaum pib puas yog dysfunctional tsev neeg yog lom tag nrho cov kev cia siab? Leej twg yuav pab tau? Thiab leej twg yuav tsum ua li cas? Yuav ua li cas muaj zog yuav tsum tau tswj ntawm lub xeev, thiab ntau npaum li cas - social lub luag hauj lwm?
Ua ntej, peb yuav tsum txhais tau lub tswvyim. Dysfunctional tsev neeg - nws tsis yog ib txwm txom nyem los sis tsis tiav. Cov me nyuam yuav ua tau leej niam leej txiv, wealth yuav ua tau, tab sis yog tias lub tsev ua nruj ua tsiv thiab humiliation yog hais tias tus txiv los yog niam yog qaug dej qaug cawv los yog siv yeeb tshuaj, yog tias leej twg yog nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam - tag nrho cov no ua tim khawv rau lub sib sib zog nqus dysfunctionality ib tug "cell ntawm haiv neeg". Txoj kev yog me nyuam ntsuag, thov khawv tam sim ntawd khees. Thiab nws yuav paub tseeb hais tias tsuas dysfunctional tsev neeg yuav muaj nyiaj rau cov me nyuam kuj nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb rau lawv tus kheej kiag li lawm thiab mus fend rau lawv ciaj sia taus. Tab sis yog hais tias txhua yam yog muab zais qab ib tug facade ntawm decency? Thaum xwm txheej tshwm sim tom qab ib tug xov laj kab thiab hlau qhov rooj? Tom qab tag nrho, kev sib raug zoo cov kev pab cuam tsis tu ntawm ib tug me nyuam los ntawm ib tsev neeg: niam txiv tsis txhob nug rau cov kev pab cuam, cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv txoj kev tsis ncaws tawm. Teeb meem uas neeg xiam hoob khab lub psyche ntawm ib tug lub neej, tsis pom thaum xub thawj pom. Piv txwv li, haus dej caw thiab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog, tshuaj tiv - yog lub destiny ntawm tsis tsuas yog tus "ntim cov txo tog haiv neeg". Qhov no mob uas muaj peev xwm kov leej twg. Thiab domestic ua nruj ua tsiv tsis yog ib txwm tsuas yog tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub slums.
Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, yog tias ua ntej lawm dysfunctional tsev neeg yuav suav tau rau lub active kev koom tes ntawm pej xeem cov kev pab cuam - muaj lub system ntawm nrauv kev kho mob ntawm alcoholism, sobering-up noj, kev pab twb muab free - tam sim no cov tau xwb. Thiab muaj ib tug paradoxical teeb meem no: nyob rau theem ntawm tsoom fwv inflates ib tug thoob ntiaj teb scandal: "Peb cov me nyuam tua lub siab phem Americans!", Thiab nyob rau hauv lub teb chaws tej teeb meem raws li nws tsis muaj nyob los yog nws yog securely kaw ob lub qhov muag. Nyob rau hauv lwm lub teb chaws qhia tau hais tias ib tug siab standard of living tsis tiv thaiv tiv thaiv pathologies ntawm kev tseem ceeb kab mob. Dysfunctional tsev neeg feem ntau nyob rau hauv yuav tsum tau ntawm puas siab puas ntsws kev pab txhawb nqa thiab kev pab, thiab tsis khoom. Leej twg yuav tsum xyuam xim rau nws, uas yuav tsum tau muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog txoj hmoo ntawm tus me nyuam?
Cov me nyuam los ntawm kev txom nyem tsev neeg feem ntau muaj enormous puas siab puas ntsws tej teeb meem. Lawv muaj ib theem siab ntawm kev ntxhov siab vim, tej zaum lawv yuav poob qab nyob rau hauv txoj kev loj hlob, lawv tsis muaj lub tej yam kev mob rau muab zoo kawm ntawv. Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho xws li teeb meem muaj peev xwm thiab yuav tsum tau saib cov neeg los ntawm cov tam sim ntawd puag ncig: cov neeg nyob ze, cov kwv tij, tsev kawm ntawv neeg ua hauj lwm. Indifference thiab uas tsis yog-cuam - cov no yog cov yog vim li cas vim hais tias cov neeg uas lub dysfunctional tsev neeg yog deprived ntawm tseem muab kev pab. Nyob rau hauv ntau lub teb chaws, nws yog dav faib kev advertising aimed ntawm kev tiv thaiv los ntawm kev nruj kev tsiv. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd rau pej xeem kev pab kev pab cuam, tsoom fwv thiab tsis yog-profit cov koom haum muab kev pab tswv yim, vaj tse nyob, psychosocial them nyiaj yug. Piv txwv li, them tawm crises chaw zov me nyuam los yog Xovtooj. Dysfunctional tsev neeg - yog tsis yog ib tug private teeb meem. Cov neeg uas raug kev txom nyem los ntawm kev ua phem, kev haus dej caw, yeeb tshuaj quav, tsev neeg, yuav tsum paub qhov twg tig tau kev pab. Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, nyob rau hauv cov pej xeem nco qab nws yog tsim nyog los tsim lub installation los tiv thaiv cov qaug zog. Tom qab tag nrho, cov me nyuam los ntawm dysfunctional tsev neeg feem ntau raug kev txom nyem nyob rau hauv silence, lawv tsis cia siab rau leej twg thiab tej zaum yuav tsis muab cov lawv tej teeb meem. Crisis chaw zov me nyuam muab cov neeg raug chaw nyob rooj thiab ua nruj ua tsiv, pab kom daws tau qhov kev cai lij choj thiab juridical teeb meem. Cov neeg yuav tsum paub tias nyob rau hauv lub feem ntau nyuaj teeb meem uas lawv tau thov kev pab.